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Old Today, 09:03 AM
Status: "Run from it or learn from it" (set 14 days ago)
 
Location: NJ
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Originally Posted by Mom4lifeto6 View Post
I didn't think what I was asking for was unreasonable either. He is trying to make it more difficult than it has to be. I literally have given him everything he wants just so we don't have to argue and go to court. I don't understand why he's being so difficult.
I literally can't afford an attorney right now. I don't have extra money. Right now we are just making ends meet. That's why we're moving, to better life for us and our family financially. I really wish I could. I'd jump on it in a heartbeat but I can't afford it.
I honestly think he's jealous because I'm bettering my life and he's still living life by struggling. I don't want to bad talk him, but I will say that when I left him, I decided right then and there that my life isn't going to be a struggle anymore, I was going to do whatever it takes to get ahead and provide a better life financially for myself and my children. My fiance is the same way so we are doing just that. But we refuse to give up time with our children so we are trying to make it the same visitation it is now while bettering our lives financially.
This idea may not sound ideal but you may have to. Send your fiance ahead. If you can afford to keep your current house and a new house then you should be able to make this work. 3 months perhaps. Then when you have a little money put aside hire an attorney and argue that you are making a better life for your children and this is your plan. You need an attorney. There is no way around it. You wont may any headway without one, because the judge is already sympathetic to him

 
Old Today, 09:37 AM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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This idea may not sound ideal but you may have to. Send your fiance ahead. If you can afford to keep your current house and a new house then you should be able to make this work. 3 months perhaps. Then when you have a little money put aside hire an attorney and argue that you are making a better life for your children and this is your plan. You need an attorney. There is no way around it. You wont may any headway without one, because the judge is already sympathetic to him
I like this idea, because it gives you some stability, OP, instead of relying on a huge plan with lots of fragile moving parts.

Right now you have a scenario that sounds ok as long as every single thing goes exactly right. But as you know things don't always go exactly right.
 
Old Today, 09:48 AM
 
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Thread temporarily closed due to moderator consideration....OP is asking for legal advice, and this may not be the best forum, or truly constitute what is posted in the Parenting forum.

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