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Old 10-20-2022, 08:57 AM
 
Location: Was Midvalley Oregon; Now Eastside Seattle area
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If it works, great.
If it doesn't work. Try something else- Gold Stars and Drawn Hearts was used in my time.
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Old 10-20-2022, 09:34 AM
 
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Our kid likes them a lot. Basically every week kids can pick something from the prize box if they get a certain number of "stars". But we are wondering if this is a good way to motivate kids? Is it worth bringing up in the PT conference?
Why would rewarding kids for good performance not be a good thing. Do you have issue with trophies for winning teams, cash bonuses for employees who go above and beyond? What is your suggestion for a better way to motivate children in class.
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Old 10-20-2022, 09:59 AM
 
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I dont see the big deal here... i think teachers generally used stickers as incentive when I was a kid. Perhaps the prizes have gotten bigger today. It's not like she's giving them money...would that be a problem though ? lol
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Old 10-20-2022, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Bloomington IN
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Let the professional in the classroom decide what works for them. This kind of reward program is Psych 101 and used because it works.
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Old 10-20-2022, 03:57 PM
 
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I think parents are encouraged to try rewards themselves at home right ?
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Old 10-21-2022, 12:29 AM
 
Location: Troy, NY
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Nothing wrong with rewarding positive behavior.

I once had a teacher that would toss out candy while asking questions. Get it right, you got the good stuff (chocolate).
Wrong a stick of gum to get you brain working again.

We also had pizza parties for those that go 90+ on tests. If you got 80-89, you'd get a free ice cream slip.
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Old 10-21-2022, 03:54 AM
 
Location: Sydney Australia
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When I was teaching I would keep a record of the rewards and make sure all kids would get one sooner or later. But only at a time that they deserved a reward. I think many teachers would do that.
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Old 10-21-2022, 06:52 AM
 
Location: Vermont
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My motivation was getting an "A." No prizes needed. I got positive reinforcement at home.
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Old 10-21-2022, 10:03 AM
 
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It's not a bribe, it's a performance bonus.

It is totally normal and a great way to motivate younger children. I'm surprised you've never done this at home. You don't have any sort of reward system, chore chart, or anything similar?

I think my elementary school was more punitive in motivation; if you aren't good, you will be punished. Punishment (or threat thereof) has it's place in motivating children, but a reward system allows a subtler hand in bringing out good performance.

Reward systems are especially effective for motivating students to participate in class.
Exactly. I don't see what the problem is. Having a good, fair rewards system in place is a part of good classroom management and is a great way to motivate kids.
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Old 10-21-2022, 10:05 AM
 
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Nothing wrong with rewarding positive behavior.
Right. If you believe in punishing kids for bad behavior, then surely you believe in rewarding them for good behavior/good performance.
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