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Old 02-19-2009, 05:33 PM
 
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Enormous heart? If she had an enormous heart she would have not been living off her parents for the last 10 years. Enormous heart? She would have gotten a job to care for the FIRST 6 & shown them what being a responsible & caring is...

Enormous heart? She would not have lied about government assistance or the plastic surgery or the whole other list of things she has lied on record about.

And just who is going to be taking care of these children?

It's not her.

And that is wrong.

Don't bring children into this world if you cannot take care of them.

And she's never taken care of the first 6, so what makes you think she is going to take care of 8 more once they are out of onesies?

"drug free student mother"...ok, does she deserve an award for that? Spare me. THOUSANDS of mothers are drug free and going to school AND WORKING and BEING RESPONSIBLE parents...and not hitting the am talk show circuit about how special they are..

You mentioned that you won't have any more children until you are done with school? Why's that?

Isn't having 8 premature babies and going back to graduate school a logicial and normal thing? Really, shouldn't be a biggie to go back to school with 14 children under 7...especially when this mother isn't caring for them...

There is a difference b/w mothers who have children under other than desirable conditions and this woman who did it on purpose based on mental illness, selfishness, greed, and just a whole list of things.

No one has said that they don't want assistance going to the children. If anything, an escrow account needs to be established so the nutcase can only used donated money for items 100% related to the children...not her manicures, or coffee stops, or whatever she was buying from MAC the other day...are you aware of how expensive MAC makeup is? And she is out buying it? A woman who is asking for people to donate things for her children is out buying makeup that averages $25 for ONE item?

If I lived in that area, I'd have NO problem helping those babies in feedings, bathing, cleaning, playing. But I wouldn't lift a pinkie to personally help that mother. She figured out how to get pregnant. She can figure out how to raise the children and do things that millions of other moms do on their own.
BRAVO! Well said. Tried repping you but I gotta spread some around first!
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Old 02-19-2009, 05:46 PM
 
Location: Niles, Michigan
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WEll I guess she is doing an interview with DR, Phil at this house and paramount people. THey were talking to Havey from TMZ who said the realty people said she was interested in the house. He didn't know if they rented the house for the interview. He said you can count on the fact if Paramount is there she is getting some money. Wasn't it Dr. Phil that tried to butt into the Brittany thing and look like a fool.
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Old 02-19-2009, 06:04 PM
 
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For those interested, there is a website site up in honor of this precious mother. She is in serious financial need after choosing to be unemployed for 10 years.

I believe the going rate for a fill on manicures is about $20. Not sure if she tips.

There may or may not need for further upkeep of the collagen injections, but sure there is other plastic surgery she would like to have done, so keep that in mind when donating.

As for the kids...keep believing she is thinking about them....she's craving for people to fall for her story & feel sorry for her...and there appears to be some!
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Old 02-19-2009, 06:11 PM
 
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I don't understand how it is any different than MY tax dollars paying for a war that I don't support!!!!!!!!!!!

As I said before. Once you pay your taxes, it goes where the government sees fit. Whether it be welfare, war, roads or to the pockets of lying cheating politicians!!!!

And someone said I sound like someone on assistance? Get over it already. I work. My husband works. I pay taxes. He pays taxes. Neither of us are getting even close to half of it back. We can't afford health insurance by any means right now. The state aid we are on is based on a sliding scale. We still pay a premium. We still pay a co-payment. However, my daughter's is completely free as it should be.

This subject is old. People involved have stingy sad thoughts.

I've said this a million times: IF YOU HAVE ALL OF THE ANSWERS AND KNOW SO WELL HOW THIS COUNTRY SHOULD BE RUN, BY ALL MEANS STEP UP AND FIX IT ALREADY!
This has so little to do with tax dollars but there is close to $10 million hospital bill that someone has to pay & officially, Kaiser has come out & said she cannot do it, they cannot do it, so can CA do it?

She the face of thousands who do indeed cheat the system for their own benefit. And added up, these people are the reasons taxes do go up along with all the other issues.

And I, as well as my husband, have served this country & honorably, so situations like this always make me shake my head in the amazement of people who have no clue what true sacrifice, true service, and true commitment mean. But when you are mentally ill, these things are not thought of in rational ways. It's also hard to fix things when those with stingy thoughts cannot realize that birthing children year after year with no support in any way is completely ridiculous.

Again, you don't continue to bring children into this world if you cannot provide for them & yet have the audacity to tell others to take care of them for you.

Based on your financial sitation, would you continue to bring children into this world on a yearly basis for the next 6 years? Oh, yeah, but you have to be unemployed as well as your husband. And then lie about receiving assistance from the government when asked about it.

The state of CA has been having financial troubles for quite some time. She is only adding to it.

And sometimes, some things are so far from fixable that letting them fall to the ground & have to rebuild on their own is the best option.

Not sure where you are getting the comparision of being in politicals to this situation....
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Old 02-19-2009, 06:33 PM
 
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Again, you don't continue to bring children into this world if you cannot provide for them & yet have the audacity to tell others to take care of them for you.
Do you understand that you are talking about countless young parents?

Do you understand that you stick a knife in all these posters with pregnant teenagers here that you support otherwise?

Do you understand that your son may father a child - regardless of your high horse - at 18 and you - yes, you - will be the most doting grandmother.

Do you understand that I can't see you teaching your class where you divide the kids mentally into belonging to parents who pay taxes and belonging to parents who don't pay taxes?

Do you understand that I am starting to get less respect for your husband whose service was subsidised by countless taxpayers who were against the Iraq war?
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:19 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Lynch Nadya! Lynch Nadya! Lynch Nadya!
I NEVER said that. Did I say that or suggest that IN ANY WAY?!?? I'm not a bleeding heart liberal or a socialist who believes in the government providing every little thing for everyone when they don't have to sh*t to do WORK for it but that does NOT mean I'm violent.

Yes I have a problem with her "lifestyle." It's not just her...she's one of the more extreme examples but do you get how many women HAVE children with the intention of using them to bring in the $$$ from the government without having to do a da*n thing for a paycheck?

And yes I firmly believe that what our tax money is spent on IS our business.
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:25 PM
 
Location: Texas
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And as far as this house...that's just insane. But even 4 bedrooms is not enough.
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Rocket City, U.S.A.
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33 is not young.

And 26 was old enough to know better.
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:32 PM
 
Location: Texas
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I just read that a video has come out of her shopping at Nordstrom's...is that where she bought the makeup or is this yet another money spending adventure? You know she sure seems to have endless amounts of time to spend money on non-necessities. Seems odd for a "caring" mother with 14 children who is unemployed and so "devoted" to her children who she wanted so badly.
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Old 02-19-2009, 07:36 PM
 
Location: USA
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In the paper today was an article that her parents house is going into foreclosure and should be in auction by May. The mother is over $23,000 behind in mortgage payments.
Now where are they all going to live.
My CA tax dollars will probably buy them a new bigger house
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