Spanking Children Causes Them to Have Spanking Fetishes (1 year old, diapers, hubby)

[strawflower]

Originally Posted by Severs

this thread is still here? i think any and all points that were to be made were made and it just needs to fade into the black nothingness of threads gone past... seriously i remember reading this thing mid last year, kill it

I agree.. opinions are obviously not being changed so I don't really see that point in this thread anymore.

[Sunflower_lol]

Originally Posted by strawflower

I agree.. opinions are obviously not being changed so I don't really see that point in this thread anymore.

No.. it always seems to turn into a battle zone which reminds me of the religious vs atheist forum as well.
However, I get the feeling that most flaming comes from the pro-spankers than anti ones. It's that feeling of ''I'm ruling here because I said so'' type of sentiment.
The irony is they claimed to be well-behavior and respectful adults but how is flaming and their usage of unsophisticated words (followed by getting quickly into a defensive mode) mature? LOL....

You can call someone pathetic without using that same word. There are ways into it. If you want to insult, you can disagree with the idea without bashing the person.

[Mathguy]

Originally Posted by gimme it

If spanking was so wonderful and worked then parents would only have to do it once and the child would never do another wrong thing. If you have had to do it more than once in your child's childhood, ask yourself whether you might want to try something else.

Another thing is that parents who spank have to ask themselves what are they so afraid of. Do you seriously think they will end up in jail if you don't hit them? Jails are filled up with those who have been hit. Read the studies. The nicest kids I know, including my own, have parents who are respectful towards them, treat them with dignity and at the same are in charge.

Several logical fallacies mixed in with a good dose of condescension.

I smell smug....mmmmmmmkay.

[Cherie Tebo]

Never spanked my two sons cause I used other ways to disipline them.
We tell our children it's not nice to hit others but we as adults hit our children.To me it sends a double mixed messages. That it's ok for us to hit although we preach to children that it's wrong.Practice what we preach.JMO

[stargazzer]

Originally Posted by NoExcuses

HAHAHAHA, ok. You can dream all you want, but parents have to be able to control their children, and example only works SOMETIMES. A good swift spank works MOST of the time.

Lazy Bones

[stargazzer]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

No.. it always seems to turn into a battle zone which reminds me of the religious vs atheist forum as well.
However, I get the feeling that most flaming comes from the pro-spankers than anti ones. It's that feeling of ''I'm ruling here because I said so'' type of sentiment.
The irony is they claimed to be well-behavior and respectful adults but how is flaming and their usage of unsophisticated words (followed by getting quickly into a defensive mode) mature? LOL....

You can call someone pathetic without using that same word. There are ways into it. If you want to insult, you can disagree with the idea without bashing the person.

Ya but thread is fun.....
1/2 want to do some romp-in
1/2 want to do some think-in
Did somebody say 1/2 time show?

[stargazzer]

Originally Posted by Cherie Tebo

Never spanked my two sons cause I used other ways to disipline them.
We tell our children it's not nice to hit others but we as adults hit our children.To me it sends a double mixed messages. That it's ok for us to hit although we preach to children that it's wrong.Practice what we preach.JMO

I agree.......&

Its all about what is started right from the start

[stargazzer]

Originally Posted by Mathguy

Several logical fallacies mixed in with a good dose of condescension.

I smell smug....mmmmmmmkay.

Woe ....its getting trickey
I know........ lets spank it and see if that helps
Ha Ha Ha

[gimme it]

Originally Posted by Mathguy

Several logical fallacies mixed in with a good dose of condescension.

I smell smug....mmmmmmmkay.

You are right. I without doubt, look down upon those who hit their children. I feel the same way about those who are mean to their pets. As far as I'm concerned, no one should ever hurt someone who cannot defend themselves.

[Cherie Tebo]

Originally Posted by stargazzer

I agree.......&

Its all about what is started right from the start

It's also about following through as well.