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I just have a quick question for mother's here? If you found out the father of your children was involved with any kind of pedophilia, would you still allow him to be apart of their lives? Would you even go as far to even reporting it to the police? Most of you would say no, and I would report it, but what if this man is your primary breadwinner and supports the whole family? You have got to think about the situation.
Also why is it that most pedophiles or sex offenders are white men. I did a study and they say that there is a huge disparity between white men who commit acts that would label them as a pedophile and other ethnic groups out there who do the same thing. Not trying to start anything, but if you want a visual example all you have to do is watch some episodes of TCAP....at least 90% of the people they catch on-line are white men.
Wow, to scapegoat my kids just because the pedophile is the breadwinner is insane. I'd rather take my kids to a friend's house, shelter, whatever it takes to get them away from a pedophile. Looking the other way is what makes incest a generational and societal tragedy. Do you know how many personal, social, familial issues are caused by incest? To be privy to such criminal acts and ignore it or pretend it's not happening is crazy. Downright cruel and negligent.
After a couple of responses my guess is the poster will eventually turn this into a race issue....see the post on "Why are Caucasians not creative in naming their children"......the clue is the second paragraph.
Last edited by maciesmom; 04-17-2009 at 06:26 PM..
Reason: re thought my words
I did a study and they say that there is a huge disparity between white men who commit acts that would label them as a pedophile and other ethnic groups out there who do the same thing. Not trying to start anything, but if you want a visual example all you have to do is watch some episodes of TCAP....at least 90% of the people they catch on-line are white men.
I'm not sure what the study's definition of pedophilia is, but most of the men entrapped on TCAP are probably not pedophiles. A pedophile is a person pathologically attracted to preadolescents, not teenagers; and a person can be diagnosed a pedophile without ever having acted on the impulse. Also, a person who molests a child, even a preadolescent one, may not be a pedophile in the clinical sense; people occasionally molest children for reasons other than a pathological sexual attraction.
As for the differences between white and other men in this regard, I have no idea. From browsing sex offender lists, it always seemed to me that the races were approximately equally distributed compared to their numbers in the population, but I haven't actually gone and counted them.
There is absolutely no way I would subject my child to a pedophile especially if it was their father. There is no way, breadwinner or not. For some man to have FREE REIGN to abuse my child is just not acceptable.
My mother acts like my ex-husband is terrible. BUT as far as I know he has NEVER done anything to hurt our children in any way. It is just a basic prejudice against him because she honestly thinks he was abusive to me... but he wasn't. If he had not only would I go to any extent to make SURE he never did it again.. I would probably rip out his heart and feed it to him.
I just have a quick question for mother's here? If you found out the father of your children was involved with any kind of pedophilia, would you still allow him to be apart of their lives? Would you even go as far to even reporting it to the police? Most of you would say no, and I would report it, but what if this man is your primary breadwinner and supports the whole family? You have got to think about the situation.
Also why is it that most pedophiles or sex offenders are white men. I did a study and they say that there is a huge disparity between white men who commit acts that would label them as a pedophile and other ethnic groups out there who do the same thing. Not trying to start anything, but if you want a visual example all you have to do is watch some episodes of TCAP....at least 90% of the people they catch on-line are white men.
Well, YOU did a study. That settles it. As in you're a Ph.D. using double-blind methods? Or are you hanging out at the Man/Boy Love Club and taking a census? Don't make me laugh.
As a side note, my wife's uncle molested both his daughters and flashed various nieces. Yet the family tolerated it and didn't send him to jail. If it were my daughter, I would have cut off his balls with a spoon that I sharpened on the driveway.
After a couple of responses my guess is the poster will eventually turn this into a race issue....see the post on "Why are Caucasians not creative in naming their children"......the clue is the second paragraph.
Many of xenos posts are race-driven. You hit the nail on the head.
I just have a quick question for mother's here? If you found out the father of your children was involved with any kind of pedophilia, would you still allow him to be apart of their lives? Would you even go as far to even reporting it to the police? Most of you would say no, and I would report it, but what if this man is your primary breadwinner and supports the whole family? You have got to think about the situation.
Also why is it that most pedophiles or sex offenders are white men. I did a study and they say that there is a huge disparity between white men who commit acts that would label them as a pedophile and other ethnic groups out there who do the same thing. Not trying to start anything, but if you want a visual example all you have to do is watch some episodes of TCAP....at least 90% of the people they catch on-line are white men.
Please provide facts and show us the source of your statistics from a credible source.
Well, YOU did a study. That settles it. As in you're a Ph.D. using double-blind methods? Or are you hanging out at the Man/Boy Love Club and taking a census? Don't make me laugh.
What are you talking about??? He DID watch TCAP after all...what more do you want?
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