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Originally Posted by Pixie Dust
Movingback2PA, thank you for your response. I know everyone is different and we each have different limits. I'm sorry for everything your family has gone through. I however, cannot give up on Daniel. He has a great father but he doesnt know how to be a full time father so if I would have him move in there I would loose him forever and I'm not willing to do that. When I had these boys, I wasnt garaunteed that they would be problem free. I imagine tat it will not always be this way that things will get better. Until than I pray and I try to use EVERYTHING available to get help. As his mother I have a responsibility and that is NOT to give up on him and I wont.
Please do not get me wrong I am not criticizing your actions. I am just saying I cannot just give up on him and live my life. My time will come but when we have children is our lives really our own?? I think not.
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I wholeheartedly agree with you....I truly am.
I didn't really "give up" on him, per say. I just took a backseat to the ride, and MADE his father step up to the plate for ONCE!!!!
I still talk to him, show my love to him, guide him.....But, it's much better for him to live with the authority under his father.
I made him live with his father for his OWN good, because otherwise I would have lost him. I love him to much, he's got me wrapped around his little finger, I am to naive when it comes to him....I am just way to soft!!!
My circumstances and life story just played out better that way. To each it's own.
You will need all the strenght and help you can get, trying to help Daniel, and trying to keep the family together as a whole. For the fairness to yourself and your family, SEEK OUTSIDE HELP IMMEDIATELY!!!!
I wish you the best, with all my heart.....It's weird how life trows a curveball sometimes, and how fast we have to adapt to a situation......
It truly is a rollercoaster at times.
Hang in there, because I also truly believe in the theory that it gets worse, before it get's better!!! ~SMILE~