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Old 12-15-2009, 08:51 PM
 
Location: Kentucky
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and now my 16 year old thinks I am a ****. I'm devestated. what do I do now?

 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:53 PM
 
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Got me on this one...I guess delete them...
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:54 PM
 
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Why would he/she think you're a *****? I mean, you're married, how does the 16 think he/she got here anyways?
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:55 PM
 
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That's a tough one. Such an extreme view coming from a 16 year old seems to imply that the relationship between the two of you is already strained? If so, then finding the pictures could merely be ammunition in that ongoing battle and nothing more. Sit down and talk it out. Seems resolvable to me, unless the fault-line runs really deep.
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:56 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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Why would he/she think you're a *****? I mean, you're married, how does the 16 think he/she got here anyways?
Yeah, I guess you could try explaining it that way That is a tough one.

In the future though, I'd stop with the dirty pictures and just give hubby the live show.
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:56 PM
 
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and now my 16 year old thinks I am a ****. I'm devestated. what do I do now?

Oh good grief. You seriously did this?

Tell the kid your husband made a bet with you and you lost. And you will never EVER do it again. Yeesh. Some people have to learn this the hard way.
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:56 PM
 
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No more sexting for you!

Well, at least there will be some funny stories at the Thanksgiving table after the shock has worn off!
 
Old 12-15-2009, 08:58 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Time for a serious adult talk with the kid. They need to understand mom & dad do these kind of things for each other and it's not harmful or bad. Just let them know you love your Hubby and it was meant for his eyes only.

BTW, I think it was up on the internet a few hours ago.
 
Old 12-15-2009, 09:00 PM
 
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I was just talking about something similar to this in another thread. The guys I work with spouses have mistakenly sent me texts on what they wanted to do to me when I get home. Oops wrong number! Man oh man, if I could get some pics, I would probably have a heart attack! LOL........
 
Old 12-15-2009, 09:00 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Sit them down and explain to them that it was wrong of you to do, however when you are an adult like me showing affection to your father whom i am married too isn't that bad.

Although you guys need to show some respect by not touching your father's personal belongings in the first place. And why were they playing on his phone? Sounds good to me.

And You are far from what your kid called you...if it was some random man or say your husbands brother..(by the way does he have one...he is cute. lol) then yes Lucy you would have some explaining to do.
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