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Old 01-24-2010, 11:01 PM
 
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I am the eldest and I hate it.

You?

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Old 01-25-2010, 12:00 AM
 
Location: Sacramento
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I am the "left over one"(middle child). I hated it growing up but now I don't care.

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Old 01-25-2010, 12:04 AM
 
Location: I think my user name clarifies that.
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I'm the youngest, and don't really give it a whole lot of thought, because it is what it is.

Every "position among siblings" has both advantages and disadvantages, and every family operates in its own unique way.
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Old 01-25-2010, 08:47 AM
 
Location: NYC
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Youngest and don't care. Growing up didn't seem to matter, but there is a 4 year age difference between sis and I.
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Old 01-25-2010, 09:21 AM
 
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I am the oldest at 26, my middle sister is 25, and my youngest sister is 13. I don't mind being the oldest at all.
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Old 01-25-2010, 09:49 AM
 
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I'm the oldest among my siblings and cousins.

I like it except for the fact that I feel like now I am the one who is supposed to keep everyone connected but we never were that connected growing up (all over the country). I am also the only female among 7 cousins and I think that plays a part in the whole "keeping everyone connected" role that right now I am letting my aunt try to handle.
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Old 01-25-2010, 09:54 AM
 
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I'm the oldest, at 2 and 6 years older than my brothers, respectively. I don't mind it at all. When I was a kid, I had more chores and had to babysit my younger siblings quite a bit, so I wasn't fond of it then... but now as an adult, I have no issues.
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Old 01-25-2010, 10:06 AM
 
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I'm a middle child. I liked it. There was always a sibling around to keep me company. When the older ones moved out, I had my younger siblings.

I also like that being a middle child instills a certain mentality---the peacemaker, the most fair minded, etc.

A psychology instructor said if you want to chose someone to be an executor of your estate, pick a middle child because the middle child will be the most fair.

The oldest child will take a larger share, and the youngest child will take everything. (I thought that was funny!)

Since middle children are often faced with a feeling of unfairness, they tend to be very fair minded people who want to be fair to others.
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Old 01-25-2010, 10:30 AM
 
Location: Syracuse IS Central New York.
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I'm an only child. Actually, the only child of an only child.

People often ask me if I like being an only, but I always answer that I don't really have anything else to compare it to.
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Old 01-25-2010, 10:36 AM
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I'm the youngest of 4 girls.

Just finished reading a book about sisters~Mother always liked you best. It was interesting to see my sisters & my roles being related to our birth order.
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