It is absolutely hard . Depending on the age of the kids for the most part they are
already set in their mothers ways and attitudes towards the father and what I
have found is that the mother trys to sabotauge the good that the step mother
tries to do for them and becomes very frustrating and can reck the relationship
especially if the guy didnt tell his new spouse that he had kids in the beginning
and I think that is wrong. When the new spouse didnt want to have kids at all
but then is pounced on with four, its just wrong and makes for too much stress
It changes the whole relationship and life style and just isnt going to work.
this has happened to my daughter and she just dosent know what to do now. She loves her man but they dont agree on how to raise the kids or disipline at all
and there arer issues that the mother wont deal with and is a bad parent and just
collects child support and lives like a pig and teaches the kids nothing. The kids
are young and only 7 and are extremely over weight and lazy and the dad dose
nothing to change it or even say anything to the mother of the kids??????
Its just ashame how these women that get lost of child support and dosent buy
the kids the things they need and keeps asking the father for more ? I just dont
get it at all. and it is especially bad when the father is passive about the wrong
things that the mother does.???????????????????????? It is obvious that the
mother just dont care about what happens to the kids.???
In my opinion they dont deserve the kids at all. but going back to court could
mean that the father would have to pay more money, for what????? Its just
hopeless and sad.
Please if you have any advise please feel free to respond.