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Originally Posted by march18
Hi! Id love to read stories from Lancster, Pa residents. What is your experience living in the beautiful, historic town? Love it? Hate it? Allergies? Headaches? Im 33, my moms 60. No kids, both swf's. From the Northwest. We are self employed and work at home in arts and photography. We work online. We are looking at the duplex villas in Lancaster by Lennar. Area code 17603. Is this a safe area? We are vegan, and the nearby farmers markets and Amish shops will be ideal for our lifestyle. Those villas are exactly what we need. If you know of something similar in another area, I would love to find out. I am a PA newbie, any insight would be very appreciated.
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Hello -
My husband and I moved here last April (2008) because my husband took a job in Reading. We've previously lived in IN, IL, and NJ. I'm from NJ, my husband is from NE. We are childless and in our early 40s. Right now we are renting a townhouse just barely outside of Lancaster city, in Manheim Township (zip code 17601). He is on a two year contract, so just the other day we spent some time tallying up the pluses and minuses as we try and decide if we want to stay. Here is what we came up with, hope it is helpful to you:
Pros
Nice housing stock with good values
Good shopping, including farmers' markets and the wonderful Central market
Relatively close to Philly, Baltimore, DC, NYC, and the Jersey shore
Four seasons but never terribly cold
Three or four colleges quite nearby
Outlying county areas are beautiful
Lancaster city has a nice arts scene and seems gay friendly and tolerant
Healthy lifestyle is encouraged with nice parks, fresh produce available so many places and at a good price
City is old and historical and in many ways quite lovely
Cons
People aren't particularly friendly or outgoing. The people in our development rarely speak to or acknowledge us. We've never lived any place where we weren't friendly with our neighbors so this is unusual.
Most of the people are multi-generational Lancastrians; we've met very few transplants. As a result, you'll probably always feel like an outsider and be treated as such. (The other day I was talking to a man who moved here about 40 years ago from Philadelphia, and he said his obituary would undoubtedly say - "Philadelphia man dies in Lancaster".)
Politically outside of the city it is extremely conservative. It's also very religious. To some this is plus, it just doesn't happen to be for us.
Traditional families are stressed. As I mentioned my husband and I are childless and typically the first question anyone asks me is if I have any children. I'm used to living in cities where childless people are much more common, and I think people find our situation peculiar.
There are terrible waits for restaurants! The day we moved we thought, we'll just pop over and get a quick dinner at Olive Garden. The wait was 2.5 hours. We've encountered the same thing at both upscale and chain restaurants.
Bottom line I guess is, if you're looking for someplace that's got nice architecture, arts, food that's sort of close to major urban areas, and you don't care that much about a sense of community or belonging, you may find you and your mom are very happy here. For us, we are still struggling to determine if those things make up for the very strong feelings of isolation that can come when people are kind of distant and cool.
Good luck!!