Wendy42 and JudyMascorro -
You need to start your own threads, not add to someone else's, it just muddies their post and yours will get lost as well. Please read Susan13202's post above (see below, I copied it for you):
If you click on this link:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/peopl...tant-tips.html
it gives the guidelines the moderators posted for this forum and gives the kinds of information you will need to post for people to be able to help you.
It also tells you that you need to start your own thread instead of adding onto someone elses. After you read the moderators guidelines, if you go here:
http://www.city-data.com/forum/newth...ewthread&f=108
you can start your own new thread there and post your information.
Good luck.