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Old 12-29-2010, 10:24 AM
 
Location: NJ
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Hello all.

I've debated over a decade about wanting to know about my mother. My father doesn't talk about her because I think he is still very hurt and angry that she walked out of our lives when I was a baby; I did try on numerous occasions to receive "If she wanted to know you, she'd find you herself."

Anyway... Her family was from Collingslakes, NJ her name was Kathleen DeFelice(maiden) she married J. Twesten (my dad) in the mid '80's. Might have been '85... They met I believe at the Sands Casino in AC. She was born on January 19 (not sure of the year). She gave birth to me in Atlantic City, NJ on June 12, 1987.

On June 12, 2010 I gave birth to my own baby girl. If anything I just want her to know that her daughter came out just fine and that she now has a beautiful granddaughter to be proud of. I'm in no way interested in ruining her life, or interrupting the family she no doubt has now... I also want her to know that I never blamed her for leaving or hold anything against her.

I always felt that she may have been embarrassed because of this. Her being younger then my dad and all... If anyone has any information, that'd be lovely.

I've also tried people search sites and they always come up with four or five results and I don't trust paying any of them since money is tight right now.
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Old 12-29-2010, 07:43 PM
 
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I HAVE FOUND ALITTLE INFO. SHOWS DOB. DON'T KNOW FOR SURE IF ADDRESS IS OLD OR NOT

U.S. Public Records Index, Volume 1
about Kathleen Defelice Horan
Name: Kathleen Defelice Horan
[Kathleen Defelice]
[Kathleen Twesten]
Birth Date: 19 Jan 1963
[1 Sep 1961]
Phone Number: 823-0861
Address: 21 S Weymouth Ave, Ventnor City, NJ, 08406-2948 (1996)
[PO Box 697, Absecon, NJ, 08201-0697]
[280 Clarks Landing Rd, Port Republic, NJ, 08241-9779 (1996)]
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Old 12-29-2010, 07:57 PM
 
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DEFELICE, KATHLEEN born 01/19/1963

HORAN, KATHLEEN DEFELICE (Age 47)

Associated names:

DEFELICE, KATHLEEN
HORAN, KATHY
TWESTEN, KATHLEEN

PORT REPUBLIC, NJ
ABSECON, NJ
VENTNOR CITY, NJ

Possible Relatives:

DEFELICE, DENNIS M (Age 51)
HORAN, RAYMOND LEO (Age 71)
DEFELICE, MARION E (Age 49)


Still searching for current address/phone....

edit- DCYE beat me to it.
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Old 12-29-2010, 08:14 PM
 
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Couldn't find them in the phone book, but found Raymond on Zaba. It may be old.


RAYMOND L HORAN Born 1939
103 KENTUCKY AVE
VILLAS, NJ 08251
(609) 886-1536
or
(609) 889-6733
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Old 12-29-2010, 09:27 PM
 
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KATHLEEN DEFELICE HORAN
KATHLEEN D HORAN
KATHLEEN HORAN
DOB: 1/xx/1963
Age: 47
Gender - Female


1932 CUTTY BAY CT
OLDSMAR FL 34677-2623
Nov 08 - Dec 10

813-448-9056 - EST


Previous address

425 OAKLEAF BLVD
OLDSMAR FL 34677-2734
Sep 07 - Jan 09

25 OAKLEAF BLVD
OLDSMAR FL 34677
Dec 07

280 CLARKS LANDING RD
PORT REPUBLIC NJ 08241-9779
Jan 95 - Oct 07

280
PORT REPUBLIC NJ 08241
May 99 - Dec 06
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Old 12-30-2010, 05:16 AM
 
Location: NJ
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Thank you all so much. I'm not surprised she is in Florida. Her stepfather used to live down there, but he died some years ago if I remember correctly.

I guess Raymond would be her husband now? Does anyone have a little encouragement or suggestions on how I might go about just saying the few things I have to say... I mean, if I call I think I might freeze up unless I get a voice mail!

Again, thank you all so so much. You're great people for helping like this.
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Old 12-30-2010, 05:23 AM
 
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Send her a card with the baby's picture. Tell her you'll call her in a few days. Draw a smiley face on it.
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Old 12-30-2010, 05:27 AM
 
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Perfect! A wonderful suggestion. Thanks a lot. (:
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Old 01-04-2011, 05:37 PM
 
Location: NJ
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I wanted to update:

I talked to my mother for the first time tonight for well over an hour. We've never been more elated.

In the mean time I also reconnected with two of her sisters and their children over facebook because of it. I'm so appreciative to you all and what you do here.

Thank you, more times then you will even know.
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Old 01-04-2011, 09:20 PM
 
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That is wonderful TLTwesten!!!
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