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Old 03-07-2012, 07:40 PM
 
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Where in Texas did they live? What was the sister's name? What were Cherry's/Brittany's names before she changed them? What years did you know them?
I don't know where they lived or the sister's name my friend...

And Cherry's original name I can't say.. let me explain.

I thik I'm giving up.

You see. She told me back in Mexico that she had a very serious problem with her ex-boyfriend/husband. In short, he even tried to kill her, I mean he shot her.

She changed her name and I guess her daughter's too and went to live to Acapulco. So, I assume, that her parent's changed their names too, I'm not sure about that.

I could let you know her original name but if that guy is looking for her, well, you know what I mean.

So, I just hope I could find her some day.

You see, I dream of her a lot... I just want to tell her that I'm sorry I didn't contact her for years but not because I didn't love her but because I couldn't go back to Mexico yet due to family emergencies.

I haven't gotten married because in my heart she is always in and I feel that I can't get married until I know she is married herself.

Well, thanks guys.
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Old 03-08-2012, 09:52 AM
 
Location: southwest TN
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That's a sweet story; however....

What if you're that ex-husband? We have no way to verify that you are not he. Now, if you go to a PI, s/he could verify.
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Old 03-08-2012, 06:01 PM
 
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That's a sweet story; however....

What if you're that ex-husband? We have no way to verify that you are not he. Now, if you go to a PI, s/he could verify.
Hi Annie...

What you mention never occurred to me, you know, the thing that I'm her ex/husband.

Well, I can prove I'm not him.

If anybody could ever find her and mention my name and nothing else she will know it's me and not her ex.. I could write about everything we lived back in Mexico so everybody knows I'm writing from my heart.

One thing I think I could never knew if I was her ex-husband is their names because obviously the ex would never guess those names.

I don't want to mention her original name precisely because I don't want to get her in trouble with that guy if he happens to be looking for her.

You know, the other day I found a little girl's picture on Facebook that looks very alike to brittany, I requested to add me as friends and sent a message but hasn't been any response.

Another thing is that you can see that I don't write a perfect english because is not my first language, I'm Mexican and that guy is American. (not a strong point but just wanted to mention it)

What is PI?

Thanks again
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Old 03-08-2012, 06:19 PM
 
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Just wanted to let you know the dream I always have...

Every time I dream of her I see her coming looking for me and I run away as fast and far as I can.

I think that I feel guilty that I didn't contact her for years and I don't want to confront her because I think she is going to be so mad etc....

When I got here to USA I called her immediately and after that I called her just one more time... I talked to the little girl and she said "..When are you coming back.."... my God! That broke my heart and decided not to called again because even when I wanted to go back immediately I had family issues that needed to be attended.

We wrote each other a few times but the email account I used with her got cancelled because I didn't even want to read her messages.

I know I sound like a coward and I accept I am and that's why I want to apologize.

The girl should be like 18-19 now... she called me "dad" once, something I will remember my whole life.

I'll keep trying to find them even when I feel it would be impossible.

It occurred to me that I could post some Ads in newspaper's classifieds or something like that.

Well guys.. I'll keep trying.

Thanks to everyone.

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Old 03-08-2012, 06:22 PM
 
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Careful what you wish for. I once found a "Friend" whom I hadnt seen in about 18 years. Not only did she not want to be found, she wasnt the same person. The years had been hard on her and taken a toll. It really ruined the memories of the great times we had.
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Old 03-08-2012, 06:34 PM
 
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Wow! I never thought about that...

However I still need to find them just to let her know I never forgot them.

Probably not to be friends again but just to say I'm sorry.. Maybe you guys understand what I'm feeling.

Thanks
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Old 03-08-2012, 07:52 PM
 
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PI = private investigator
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