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Old 05-18-2013, 07:17 AM
 
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Well I talked to my sister today
As you and your sister communicate more, at some point she will tell the other sibling(s) about you.
They will very likely want to know you too. You did not have to turn over all the stones that were there to be turned over. Other's in your situation should consider all the stones. Best wishes getting to know your new relatives who have been there all this time, and eventually meeting them.
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Old 05-18-2013, 10:11 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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As you and your sister communicate more, at some point she will tell the other sibling(s) about you.
They will very likely want to know you too. You did not have to turn over all the stones that were there to be turned over. Other's in your situation should consider all the stones. Best wishes getting to know your new relatives who have been there all this time, and eventually meeting them.

Well he now knows about me (well that I do exist) and I know now what he looks like but that is it. I told her that I would wait him out if we were ment to meet we will if not I am not missing anything I didn't have before. My Sister and I talked for almost 2 hours today and I learned a lot more. We are going to have a face to face meeting in a couple weeks
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Old 05-21-2013, 10:51 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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Ok new development: I have talked to my sister almost daily, It has now been confirmed that my brother and I are full blood brothers from the same mother and father, he is still processing all the information and I am not pressuring him into meeting me, I figure that will come in time if he wants to know. My Father is still alive but I have no interest in contacting him or knowing him. My Sister is happy to have me and seems to be wanting to allow me into her life. We are going to be meeting sometime next week. I have been under an enormous amount of new information and stress which has caused my body to give me a warning sign I am running a high fever right now. I will share more when I am ready right now I am getting to know my sister and she is getting to know me.
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Old 05-21-2013, 10:54 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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I am slowly getting to know my younger sister I still have no contact with my brother or father (I am not really wanting to go down that road) Anyway as I get more comfortable I will share more, Right now I am taking some time off since my body is giving a warning sign that I have to much going on and I need to slow down a little bit so I can process everything (I am running a high fever)
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Old 05-21-2013, 11:17 PM
 
Location: Spots Wyoming
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Congratulations on the new found family. I know you must be going through a lot, but try and remember one thing, the other people are going through as much, if not more than you and they deserve time to digest the strange person on the phone.

You sound like a very straight forward thinking person, so as you take time, give them a little extra time as well.

Good luck!
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Old 05-24-2013, 12:09 AM
 
Location: Native Floridian, USA
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Good luck, Flyboy. I hope it works out well for you. Thx for letting everyone know how it goes. Take care of yourself.
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Old 05-24-2013, 10:18 AM
 
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It has now been confirmed that my brother and I are full blood brothers from the same mother and father, he is still processing all the information and I am not pressuring him into meeting me.
As discussed step one has to happen before step two.
He's processing (as you say) step one, and may have his own family and other factors.
He'll surely want to know you and meet you too.
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Old 05-25-2013, 12:58 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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As discussed step one has to happen before step two.
He's processing (as you say) step one, and may have his own family and other factors.
He'll surely want to know you and meet you too.

I right now am not emotionally ready to meet him which is why I have sort of stopped the search. I did meet a Cousin of his, mine and my brother which was nice but we are going one step at a time.
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Old 05-27-2013, 03:49 PM
 
Location: Chicago
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well I think I have started my nervous break down, I need to take a step back and allow myself some time to breath and I haven't had that in over a week I am starting to really get over whelmed and my husband is of no help which isn't helping as we are now fighting more then we have been.
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Old 05-27-2013, 05:52 PM
 
Location: NJ
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well I think I have started my nervous break down, I need to take a step back and allow myself some time to breath and I haven't had that in over a week I am starting to really get over whelmed and my husband is of no help which isn't helping as we are now fighting more then we have been.
I'm sorry to see you left the group too. You really need the support of people that understand.
Your hub is not going to understand your feelings unless he's had a similar life.

I don't doubt that there is a group that is more private then the other. Let me know if you need help finding another that's closed; so you can be more free to talk. The other was public.

You know where to find me. ~Hugs
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