Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
I am helping my niece search for her birth family. She was born at Columbia-Presbyterian 8/23/1971 to a Jewish 15 year old mother whom the records state her surname was Stevens. It was a private adoption to a wonderful Jewish family in Manhattan. We are doing all the usual postings on registries and with the state as well as DNA. No leads yet! Thanks for any information.
I'll offer you the experience of another in New York. The adoption took place in the 1970's as well. Being 40+ years and the adoptive parents not known by name and no agency, efforts have been made for the birth mother to locate and contact the lawyer who handled it. In your case you seek the birth parents and in this other situation it's the birth mother doing the seeking. That is one remote option you may have down the road which is to locate the lawyer and see if enough time has passed for him to tell you names.
Thanks for the suggestion. The only lawyer I have been able to identify as handling family affairs died many years ago. I do not know what lawyers do with their records. Do you have any idea as to whether the family temple of the adoptee would have any records? I hope your birth mother seeker found her child.
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.
Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.