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Old 09-04-2013, 11:27 PM
 
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i am searching for my mother whom i have not seen or heard from in almost 30 years. i have little information to go on but have been searching and finding no leads. my research is telling me that i am dealing with a person that doesn't want to be found. This is bothersome cause i would very much like to be reunited with her. Here's what i do know: Debra Lucille Stagner Born July-Sept. 1957 in England. Her mothers maiden name was Gunn. Her mother lived in Fort Worth, Tx. !975. I have two half sisters that i was told were adopted by my grandmother Gunn. My mother's mother. My mother and father (David Ray Ponder) were married March 8, 1973 in Harris county Texas. My father is deceased and noone in my family knows anything about my mother or her family. I have been searching for several months now and haven't even come close. Any help would be greatly appreciated!!! Thank Any and All that may be able to help or for any that even tries!!!!
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Old 09-05-2013, 01:25 PM
 
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Her DOB should be 07/05/1957 and last name should now be Chancellor.
I see three with that name on Facebook that you can check out.
This should be her
Debbie L Chancellor
Newman Chancellor
3421 Concord Rd
Amarillo, TX 79109
Tel (806) 576-0977

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Old 09-05-2013, 08:23 PM
 
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Thank you MrBillM! I tried the number but it's no good. I have also tried facebook but no response from any of them yet. Again thank you for your immediate response. I'll keep you posted on how this turns out.
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Old 09-06-2013, 09:19 AM
 
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Thank you MrBillM! I tried the number but it's no good. I have also tried facebook but no response from any of them yet. Again thank you for your immediate response. I'll keep you posted on how this turns out.
MrBill has given you a valid current address for a possible, though you said the phone is out of service.
You should think about how you and your Mother lost contact and that should give you an idea if she would be glad to hear from you. You can always write the above address and that Mrs. Chancellor would very likely give you a reply back one way or the other if you enclose a stamped self addressed envelope.

Facebook can easily go un-replied to, unintentionally. One person being looked for was on Facebook and had not used their account in over a year, so FB is very hit and miss on getting a reply back. Finally they did reply back and he and his son finally communicated but it was matter of waiting several months for the Father to go to his FB account and check messages.
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What was your Grandmother's married name?

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Old 09-06-2013, 07:59 PM
 
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thank you howard I will try your suggestion. I don't know for sure but I would assume stagner was grandmothers married name.
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Old 09-08-2013, 09:56 PM
 
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MrBill i did a little research trying to find a working # for Debbie L. Chancellor and found out her middle name is Lynn not Lucille. i did not find a # and sent several messages out on facebook but no replies as of yet and don't expect any luck now knowing the middle name to be different. Thank you very much for helping though i am greatly appreciative.
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Old 09-09-2013, 01:19 PM
 
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Donald - here is a Georgia arrest record (minor) for a Debra Lucille Stagner dob 7/5/57 - it lists an address for her at that time of 2205 Lilac st, Nederland TX.

Debra Lucille Stagner - Arrest Records | gaolAR

In a reverse search of that address there is a family by the name of Cotham - Hazel Cotham's maiden name appears to have been Gunn. She married Charles H Cotham III 8/6/71 in Harris County TX.

This is an obituary for Hazel's daughter and it lists a brother by the name of Delbert Stagner...no mention of Debra, but the address listed for her was that of the Cotham's.

Obituary For: Nicole Laverne Cotham Seaman | Dorman Funeral Home

Not sure if this contact info is 100% current, but worth a try...
Delbert W Stagner
484 County Road 250, Jasper TX 75951
Tel: 409-384-2621

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Old 09-09-2013, 01:24 PM
 
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Another possibility. Different date of birth, but this one stayed in Texas, at least until 1993.


Name:
Debra L Ponder

Birth Date:
17 Sep 1957

Address:
2716 Phillips Dr Apt 103a, Amarillo, TX, 79109-4746 (1989)
[400 Wayland St, Plainview, TX, 79072-7651 (1993)]
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Old 09-09-2013, 01:52 PM
 
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Not sure if this contact info is 100% current, but worth a try...
Delbert W Stagner
484 County Road 250, Jasper TX 75951
Tel: 409-384-2621
ElizNJ that name and address looks to be current as of this year, not sure about the phone number. Good find by you as usual and hopefully the final piece needed by the Op.

Nederland Texas is in Jefferson County and here is one Stagner listed on a public site:
This is her "mailing address" not the physical address.
Debra Stagner
6345 Chasse Knoll
Orange, Texas 77632
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Donald: I'll send you a possible for Mr. Cotham since the names associated are different and he may have remarried.

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Old 09-09-2013, 02:53 PM
 
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Originally Posted by ElizNJ
Not sure if this contact info is 100% current, but worth a try...
Delbert W Stagner
484 County Road 250, Jasper TX 75951
Tel: 409-384-2621




If that number isn't good than try tel 409) 384-5325 for Delbert Wayne Stagner
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