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Old 01-23-2008, 09:35 AM
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My name is Leigha Hoffner, my father is Randall Lee Hoffner i have his name his ssn his date of birth and i found the records that prove who he is however my mother is another story. She claims that her name is Pamela Alice Murphy madien name is Vaillancourt her supposed birth date is 8-14-1959 however i have been unable to locate any records for her brfore 1977 there seems to be no birth certificate or social can someone please help me find out who this woman is.
Here is the history of why and how this came about.
My mother who i grew up with claimed that she was born and raised in Mass. she claimed that she went to mount holyoke college but so far nothing she has said is true. My mother claimed that she was molested by family memebers but she sent me to the same family memebers that molested her and it happen to me. I am looking into filing charges for her however we can locate who she really is. i have a little brother who was told he was born in california but when we sent for his birth certificate they said they didnt have one for him his social came back inactive.
My mother is being investigated for selling me. I want to find out who she is it is also believed that she is mentally ill with multiple persionalities and that this Pam name is really her alter. This is very confusing to me. My entire family are liars my father claimed he was born in colorado but his social security number says california.
Please help so that i can know the truth and move on. i have a family now but my past has greatly had negative influence on me and i would like to continue in therapy and be able to put this all behind me

Thank you ever so much
please contact me at leighaModerator cut: removed, look in user profile for contact

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Old 01-23-2008, 12:14 PM
Location: Hampton Roads, Virginia
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Even though I cannot help, I wanted to wish you luck.

Also, the social sec # is issued based on where you lived at the time you applied for a card - not where you were born. So he may not be lying about that.
Old 01-23-2008, 05:17 PM
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Ok. Thank you for that part. i was hoping that he was innocent in this big mess. That explains it.

Thank you
Old 01-24-2008, 12:09 PM
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my question is now is it possible to look at your parents social security card application and if so how would i do that?
Old 01-28-2008, 11:48 PM
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What do you know about your mother's parents and family?
Old 02-02-2008, 05:48 AM
Location: No city lights here
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I maybe wrong but this is a thought

your birth certificate has your parents name on it..who's names are on it?

Have you looked for yourself on the missing children's list? Could you have been abducted as a child?
Old 06-30-2019, 06:00 PM
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Default I don't know who is giving you this info but your wrong.

Leigha I know your Mother, Her maiden name is Pamela Alice Vaillancourt, She is from Massachusetts, Her Fathers name was Richard Vaillancourt. Pam's name was never murphy, her Mother's was. And she sure as hell never sold you. Because if that was the case then why do i Have pics of her with you and your Brother, and How could you have grew up with her like you stated if she sold you. Your Brother was born in California.And no she is not mentally ill, She is very much sane. I don't know where you are getting this wrong info from but your wrong. And if your wondering how i know this, Her father was married to my mother, so i very much know pam. and i have pics and papers to prove everything i said. By the way She divorced your father and was remarried her last name is Richards. If you need any info just let me know.
Old 07-01-2019, 01:39 PM
Location: florida
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That is an old post. If you click on her name you can send her a direct message. If she still has the same email as she did back than she will see it.

Old Yesterday, 10:40 PM
Location: wrong planet
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The OP has not been back and posted on this thread since 2008, so I am going to close the thread. As MrBill said, try sending a direct message, I don't think the OP will see your post otherwise.
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