Do you think my plan is realistic?

[King_of_DC]

Originally Posted by nep321

I have no desire to get any certifications or advance my career that much. I just don't enjoy my career much at all. That's why my plan described in my original post would eliminate the need to earn a lot of money and advance my career. That way I can settle for something that pays like $55K and not have a mortgage payment (other than taxes and insurance of course).

Like I said, you have an excuse for everything.

Everything anyone suggested, you have an excuse.

Okay, your plan is realistic... that is all you really want to hear. Not even sure why you posted this... you don't want help. You want to live in misery and hope for the best.

Good luck with that plan... come back in four and let us know what misery you are in then.

[mysticaltyger]

Originally Posted by RecentGrad1

It's funny how when you show people the fast track to realize their dreams, they instead choose take to the path of prolonged misery.

...Which would be fine if they didn't complain about it; but that rarely happens.

[mathjak107]

as i say , if they really want to do something they will find a way , otherwise they will find an excuse.

[mathjak107]

Originally Posted by nep321

What you don't understand, is that to me, living in a studio and not being able to drive a car to work is pure misery. Why on earth would I do that for 3+ years? Like I said, I'd rather live comfortably for 4 years than live in misery for 3 years. I'm surprised you don't understand that. I appreciate your input in this thread and all, but your idea of everyday life and standard of living might not be desirable to others (me). My dream would be realized after 4 years anyway. Without having to live in a studio. And as you pointed out, studios in my area are extremely expensive anyway. And the climate here is not conducive to outdoor commuting. We told you that. This is not California. It's Connecticut. The weather is very messy, wet, windy, cold, hot, humid, etc.

i lived in a studio apartment after my divorce.

i have to admit it was really nice being able to cook, entertain guests and sit on the toilet all at the same time.