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Old 11-21-2014, 08:02 AM
 
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Whose life? Not mine lol! I'm free from all of the financially bankrupting, physical health destroying, mental illness implementing CRAP because I'm MGTOW and have opted out of all it.

I live my life for me, chasing my passion in life (my career, working out, etc) dating whomever I please, vacationing whenever I want, and enjoying life on this Earth until I'm 75-85 and DIE.


Well now that says a lot about you. Combine that with your delusional view of life and I hope you enjoy yourself
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:05 AM
 
Location: South of Mason Dixie!
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If I had such a cartoonishly dismal outlook on life, I'd probably decline to have kids too
Yes.
And did you notice how often this guy keeps bringing up Family Court in his post? Much like a guy above who keeps harping about marriage being essentially a 'financial transaction'. These kind of people seem to have bad breakups and unfortunately bore unfair financial burdens because of the breakups. And so they have reduced the idea of marriage to financial scare mongering.

I met a similar kind of guy in a pub last night whose wife 'cheated on him', resulting in a divorce, and now this guy hates women, wowing never to marry again; this guy was an uncouth drunk! Using the most vulgar language in front of young bartender women to express his hatred of women (except to screw them)... Yes, I get it: You guys had bad marriages but maybe there was something you guys did wrong too?!


Some of us can and are happily married and remain so for decades. Often for a lifetime. If 60% end in divorce then the rest of the 40% can't be all that miserable.
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:08 AM
 
Location: Clinton Township, MI
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Well now that says a lot about you. Combine that with your delusional view of life and I hope you enjoy yourself
Lol, can you remain consistent for once?

First you say, "Yeah all of what you posted is the norm and that's how life is."

Now you say my view of life is delusional, which is it lol??
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:09 AM
 
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Yes.
And did you notice how often this guy keeps bringing up Family Court in his post? Much like a guy above who keeps harping about marriage being essentially a 'financial transaction'. These kind of people seem to have bad breakups and unfortunately bore unfair financial burdens because of the breakups. And so they have reduced the idea of marriage to financial scare mongering.

I met a similar kind of guy in a pub last night whose wife 'cheated on him', resulting in a divorce, and now this guy hates women, wowing never to marry again; this guy was an uncouth drunk! Using the most vulgar language in front of young bartender women to express his hatred of women (except to screw them)... Yes, I get it: You guys had bad marriages but maybe there was something you guys did wrong too?!


Some of us can and are happily married and remain so for decades. Often for a lifetime. If 60% end in divorce then the rest of the 40% can't be all that miserable.


It's the same poster when you ref this guy and they one above.
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:10 AM
 
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Lol, can you remain consistent for once?

First you say, "Yeah all of what you posted is the norm and that's how life is."

Now you say my view of life is delusional, which is it lol??


You know everything about women, marriage and divorce but apparently know nothing of sarcasm. Your view is delusional
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:14 AM
 
Location: Clinton Township, MI
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Yes.
And did you notice how often this guy keeps bringing up Family Court in his post? Much like a guy above who keeps harping about marriage being essentially a 'financial transaction'. These kind of people seem to have bad breakups and unfortunately bore unfair financial burdens because of the breakups. And so they have reduced the idea of marriage to financial scare mongering.

I met a similar kind of guy in a pub last night whose wife 'cheated on him', resulting in a divorce, and now this guy hates women, wowing never to marry again; this guy was an uncouth drunk! Using the most vulgar language in front of young bartender women to express his hatred of women (except to screw them)... Yes, I get it: You guys had bad marriages but maybe there was something you guys did wrong too?!


Some of us can and are happily married and remain so for decades. Often for a lifetime. If 60% end in divorce then the rest of the 40% can't be all that miserable.

Lol, you guys are so emotional that you don't even realize that you are failing to use LOGIC with your own supposed "stances".

On one hand you ADMIT, guys like me have had bad experiences (directly or indirectly) with the institution of marriage/divorce being financial rape, but YET despite our bad experience we are supposed to go along happy go lucky as if NOTHING happened?

That's like walking down a dark alley at night for the first time, and a dog jumps out and BITES the hell out of you. You run home and do first aid on yourself before going to the hospital.

Knowing that you got the hell bitten out of you last time, would it make sense to walk down that dark alley one more time? If other PEOPLE asked you about your experience with that dark alley, what would you say?

- Would you say, "I walked down that dark alley and got the hell bitten out of me, don't go down there!"

- Or would you say, "Well, I walked down that dark alley and unfortunately I got the hell bitten out of me HOWEVER, that shouldn't stop YOU from going down that dark alley! You walk that dark alley with your head up high!"

Lol....you guys can't be serious.
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:16 AM
 
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Lol, you guys are so emotional that you don't even realize that you are failing to use LOGIC with your own supposed "stances".

On one hand you ADMIT, guys like me have had bad experiences (directly or indirectly) with the institution of marriage/divorce being financial rape, but YET despite our bad experience we are supposed to go along happy go lucky as if NOTHING happened?

That's like walking down a dark alley at night for the first time, and a dog jumps out and BITES the hell out of you. You run home and do first aid on yourself before going to the hospital.

Knowing that you got the hell bitten out of you last time, would it make sense to walk down that dark alley one more time? If other PEOPLE asked you about your experience with that dark alley, what would you say?

- Would you say, "I walked down that dark alley and got the hell bitten out of me, don't go down there!"

- Or would you say, "Well, I walked down that dark alley and unfortunately I got the hell bitten out of me HOWEVER, that shouldn't stop YOU from going down that dark alley! You walk that dark alley with your head up high!"

Lol....you guys can't be serious.


It's not really rational to think that everytime you walk down a dark alley that a dog is going to attack you. It may be you that is overly Emo
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Clinton Township, MI
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It's not really rational to think that everytime you walk down a dark alley that a dog is going to attack you. It may be you that is overly Emo
Lol, of course it's not rational to overly emotional people. A dog, a thief, a rapist, anything is subject to be down that dark alley, take an alternative way home.

Just like with marriage, anything is subject to happen that would cause that marriage to end and you being on the receiving end of financial rape. Just take an alternative way home! Which in this case, just do your long term "loving" relationships with women OUTSIDE of a marriage contract and you won't have any issues.

If you want a Cohabitation with her, do it outside of a Common Law state, or better yet....you have your place and she has HER place, and you guys take turns "visiting" each other.

That's how I do it, it exempts you from all of the crap but allows you to enjoy all of the benefits (sex and dates). If at ANY MOMENT that woman starts to go bat crazy on you, you can leave! Free and clear! And go find another woman!
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:27 AM
 
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I know, what a concept.
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Old 11-21-2014, 08:27 AM
 
Location: South of Mason Dixie!
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It's not really rational to think that everytime you walk down a dark alley that a dog is going to attack you. It may be you that is overly Emo

Yup!
Their paranoia has formed their worldview. And looking at the bar guy from last night they are a sad spectacle to behold.
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