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Old 02-11-2018, 09:30 PM
 
Location: Denver CO
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Really? I see an awful lot of $60k 4WDs here. Real shiny ones. Expensive alloy wheels. Not a spray of mud or a rock ding to be seen. I guess they... must feel real good to sit in. On the leather seats you wouldn't want to mess up with dirt or grass stains or tree sap.

CO's bling-lite by some standards. But it's here, too.
That still doesn't mean those vehicles were bought to impress anyone else, as opposed to be purchased based on the owner's personal desires and preferences. The fact that some people might be impressed by them doesn't automatically change that.

(And no, I don't own one of them, I would never spend that kind of money on a car because it's not something I personally care that much about. I like what I have but I don't expect it to impress anyone)
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Old 02-12-2018, 07:09 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Are you in Denver? I see very little of that where I live, where I travel around the state and from people I know. Of course, I don't frequent Denver or the I-70 corridor.

Of course that sort of thing exists everywhere, but I think much less in this state than others, just anecdotally from what I see.


I'm in Lakewood and drive a 63k Lexus AWD. Worth every penny
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Old 02-12-2018, 07:11 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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Yes, but most of the time, people buy things for the brand, not the actual luxury features or whatever they like about it. The brand itself is like a statement piece. Why own one Louis Vuitton bag if you can get 5 bags (of excellent quality) for the price of 1 that has very little differences in terms of material quality? It's all in the brand and the perceived status symbol. Why pay $60K for a Lexus when a $35K Toyota has literally the same exact features/similar craftsmanship? No matter how you slice and dice, when something is sold for 2x the cost or more, but both have very similar features/quality construction, there's really nothing else to it but a brand markup.

There's blowing money for something that's actually better, and there's just wasting money for a status symbol. That's where the line needs to be drawn.


You are very wrong on this. I owned several Lexus and sold them. They ARE NOT the same
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Old 02-12-2018, 07:15 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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I love it how other people try to tell you how to spend your own money because they don't agree with it. Went to lunch yesterday and walked into a jewelry store. Saw a bracelet I fell in love with and bought it for 5k. Didn't even blink an eye. I work hard and I deserve it. I don't have to impress anyone at all.
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Old 02-12-2018, 07:40 AM
 
Location: Floyd Co, VA
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Not at this point in time. I've spent the past 3 years in super frugal mode, saving as much as I can as I wait to see if my pension is going to be severely cut. The fund is in the red and they submitted a plan to the Treasury Dept. but it was rejected in May, 2017.

The board of directors is trying to decide whether to do a revision and resubmit or just to let it ride - in which case it is currently projected to go bankrupt at the end of 2030. Based on the originally proposed cut I currently have enough in savings to supplement my routine expenses for about 6 years.

However there are likely to be non routine needs (I just replaced my roof and water heater) in the foreseeable future. The Suburban is a 1996 with 204,000+ miles on it, the washer and dryer are 15 years old, etc.

Lately the waiting game is very frustrating - like being on hold on the phone for 3 years.
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Old 02-12-2018, 08:26 AM
 
Location: Where the heart is...
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The most expensive thing I ever purchases besides my home and my cars is my home theater system. I didn't buy it to show it off to people. I bought it because since I was a child, I dream of having one. I bought one as soon as I can afford it and no regret.
While I don't have a home theatre system I do have a 'fondness' for movies. I am frugal in my purchase of them and I have the patience to wait for the 'new release' to fall to what I consider a reasonable price to pay for it.

On the other hand I will never, ever (unless I am elderly and frail and placed in an assisted living center) will be without a car and my preference is for new. Although I am single and my income is moderate I don't have any other 'needs' which would prevent me from focusing on what I deem to be the 'necessary' purchases for 'my life'. I have excellent credit and I negotiate the best interest rate and price that I am able to.

I alluded to this in a post long past and I received a 'rep' stating something to the affect of 'not everyone can afford to do that'. No, not everyone can, however I make it affordable for myself by not 'needing' other things which some consider necessary to make them 'comfortable, happy, secure, joyful'.

I am at the age where I have no other responsibilities to anyone else and I take care of 'my needs' as I see fit without guilt or regret.

Yes, you can "simply buy something because you like it".

In the end, I say to 'each their own' and everyone is entitled to their 'wants and needs' as they see them.
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Old 02-15-2018, 05:33 PM
 
Location: Verde Valley AZ
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One "reasoning" that I see here all the time that baffles me is "X people purchase something" to show the world or "impress the neighbors".

I just read this on the luxury car thread.

Now maybe I'm just really unobservant but I couldn't tell you what type of car a random stranger is driving. I couldn't tell you what type of car my siblings drive.

Same with houses. If someone has a big house, we automatically go to "oh they are trying to impress the neighbors. Really? How come some one can't simply like big rooms? lol,

Anyway, I turn 60 in a year and a half and I've been saving for a luxury bag that I fell in love with (lol hopefully it will still be around). I won't be trying to impress anyone, I simply saw it in the store window at the king of Prussia mall and said, "wow that's gorgeous". lol

Isn't is possible to blow money on something not to impress anyone but simply because one saw it, liked it and could afford it?

Of course it's possible. Even recommended sometimes!


I've thought about it and I don't think I know anybody who buys something to impress others or 'keep up with the Joneses'. A lot of people own nice new vehicles, some have big houses and most of the people I know don't give a rats butt what others think. lol They bought the things they did because they liked them, could afford it and wanted it. My brother owns a big, very nice, house not far from me. He didn't buy it to impress anyone but they liked it AND the price was right. That's what most of the people I know, including myself, do.


You go buy that "luxury bag" and enjoy it to the max!
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Old 02-15-2018, 05:37 PM
 
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I splurged and bought a $200 pair of boots the other night. But I thought about it for weeks before my wife said, "Just buy the boots already. You know you want them." Man, they are good looking, and I am not even a clothes horse.
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Old 02-15-2018, 05:41 PM
 
Location: Aurora Denveralis
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I splurged and bought a $200 pair of boots the other night. But I thought about it for weeks before my wife said, "Just buy the boots already. You know you want them." Man, they are good looking, and I am not even a clothes horse.
How long will you likely own them, and how often will you wear them? I suspect the answers will make the $200 irrelevant. "Buying for value" is just good sense.
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Old 02-15-2018, 06:03 PM
 
Location: Verde Valley AZ
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I splurged and bought a $200 pair of boots the other night. But I thought about it for weeks before my wife said, "Just buy the boots already. You know you want them." Man, they are good looking, and I am not even a clothes horse.

You don't know how I wish I could do something like that. Just spend that much money on something I really wanted, but I can't. I COULD, but I can't. I spend very little on myself but I'll buy what I want for my house. Even at that, though, I think about it for a long time before pulling the trigger because it has to be something I WILL use often enough to be worth it.


Having said that, I just spent $200 on a Bissell Wet-Dry floor cleaner and it works great! I justified it with my health. Sweep/mop/shine is work intensive when you have 5 acres of, mostly, hardwood floors. Feels like 5 acres! I have COPD and it wears me out. Also recently broke my hip and while I'm fully recovered I cannot do some things I used to do, like get down on the floor! So, just for those two reasons I felt justified in buying this appliance. I won't regret it, I'm sure. Oh, and this machine cleans my area rugs like a charm and they realllly needed it! lol
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