What would the average two bedroom apartment go for in Phoenix? In a nice area.......800 - 1200.
• How is the public transportation in Phoenix? I don't use it but I see it all the time

Those busses are everywhere! And they are finnishing the new lightrail system that runs through town.
• Is there a city or town just outside the busy area where I can exist quietly? If you care about crime i would get as far out of phoenix and away from the 17 as you can....preferably go north west or north east.
• What’s crime like in Phoenix? High....according to ALL of the "most dangerouse city" sites......If you don't mind a commute I would check out the north west or north east valley.
• Is daycare expensive? Very...my daughter is 4 currently in preschool and with my "break" from being a teacher in the district it is still 600 a month. (full time) but you can always find private care...just be very very careful there are lots of sites that can recommend registered home daycares.
• Is cost of living higher than Orlando? This I am honestly not sure about, never been to orlando.....
• What’s it like in Phoenix in general? I’ve read a few of the negative things but what are some of the better reasons to live there? There are a lot of good reasons to live here.....If you like the outdoors we have it all.....from awesome lakes ( spent my whole childhood at them) to amazing hiking trails to snowskiing (about an hour and half to two hours north) Sedona wich is amazing you have to take a trip there if you do move here, to great malls....museums....downtown is neat for somone who has never been...lots of cool stuff to see.....just a lot to do if your active.
• How long of a drive to the nearest beach? lol.....wow um like 6 hours to SanDiego and if you like the whole mexico thing i think it's like 4-5 hrs.
Any thoughts, advice or suggestions? If you have kids find a safe area....the valley is sketchy you don't want to end up in the wrong neighborhood and then realize it.......Let me know if you need more info.....good luck and take care
Lori