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Old 12-08-2009, 07:03 PM
 
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In the back of my head I thought the same thing SoBelle! Like maybe there is more going on than you see on the surface.

She never liked living here, as one poster pointed out women have more social/emotional issues with lack of a social life, its just more important to womens well being then it seems it is to men. You might be gaga in love and leave your home state for a man, but if hes insentive to your well being than that love eventually goes POOF. And lets not forget theres two sides to every story, who knows really what was going on. Two years was a decent try and sacrafice on her part in my opinion if you were less then thrilled to be in a new place.
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Old 12-10-2009, 12:25 AM
 
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You will have to take her to small claims court if you want to pursue it.
True. And win. And collect/garnish. Is it possible you could talk to the landlord, explain your hardship, and break or shorten the lease?
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Old 12-10-2009, 07:54 AM
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Bench Warmer, Here's my assessment: you currently have 108 posts on this forum alone, no telling how much time you spend on line when you should have been giving her your screen time. Chances are she has read everything you posted here and is taking advice on the back side of what everyone is suggesting. Did the landlord post that notice or did she make it up and have someone post it just to make you thing you're fully responsible? Maybe she's doing the landlord and got the release because she does more for him then you do. But if your landlord's a her not a him and she left you for her....can you say DAMN!!!!
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Old 12-10-2009, 08:43 AM
 
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She never liked living here, as one poster pointed out women have more social/emotional issues with lack of a social life, its just more important to womens well being then it seems it is to men. You might be gaga in love and leave your home state for a man, but if hes insentive to your well being than that love eventually goes POOF. And lets not forget theres two sides to every story, who knows really what was going on. Two years was a decent try and sacrafice on her part in my opinion if you were less then thrilled to be in a new place.

This is true.. We were planning on leaving AZ after this lease.. I wanted to go back home (MA), but was kind of worried about the job situation.. I was looking into Denver, Pittsburgh, and Home..

Your right tho, bottom line, she just didn't want to be here.. I wish she had up and left before we signed this 1 year lease.. I got 10 more months to go.. Just crappy timing.
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Old 12-10-2009, 10:48 AM
 
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Imagine your property mgmt company telling you, the landlord, that they let off one of the parties because they were crying on their doorstep, would you be happy??
We do some property management in our real estate office here and letting someone out of their lease is never our choice to make. We are just the intermediary agent between the two parties.

It would totally unethical for us to make decisions and then call our clients and tell them what we did. We are the first point of contact and as such we would get approached by a tenant asking to breach their lease. Our answer would have to be, we will contact our client and let you know.

When our client asks our advice, I can't think of one good reason why I would recommend they let them go scott free. But my point is that, the release would be the landlords decision and not the property manager's.

If its the case that the property manager made the call to let off a crying tenant without consent of the owner, not only would the owner be enraged, the mgmt co. would have some serious liabilty on their hands.
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Old 12-10-2009, 12:19 PM
 
Location: Cave Creek, AZ USA
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Even if being married would make it harder for her to be released from the lease, count your blessings that this happened before you married this loser. I've had this kind of thing happen once or twice, once even leading to the break-off of an engagement. Believe you me, no matter how painful it is now, you'll look back in a year or so and be so thankful it happened. Just about every bad thing that's ever happened to me turned into a blessing later on - from a college rejection letter to not getting a job I wanted to breaking up with someone I was in love with. It always works out later on.
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Old 12-10-2009, 02:21 PM
YAZ
 
Location: Phoenix,AZ
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Get a hot female roommate (she'll have friends),

gitter done
And that's how ya do that.



Sounds sophomoric, I know, but if getting stuck with 10 months rent is the only thing BW's got to deal with (besides a broken heart), well, buddy, you got off easy.

Think of all of the fun that you're gonna have....
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Old 12-10-2009, 03:42 PM
 
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Default that release wasn't official

That release she left on the door was only a request. In order for her to get it done for good was for me to agree to release her and for me to qualify on my own.. Which I probably wouldn't. So I still have a chance at getting some of my funds back at the end of this...
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Old 12-10-2009, 04:57 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Forget her. There are lots of "hot" women in Phoenix. Especially in the summer.
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Old 12-10-2009, 06:28 PM
 
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Forget her. There are lots of "hot" women in Phoenix. Especially in the summer.

Yea, its just hard meeting people around here.. Especially being alone.. Girls think thats creepy.. Plus i have one of the worst schedules a single person could ever have..

it's gonna be tough
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