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Originally Posted by musegimm
I'm desperate to leave where I'm at and due to other difficulties which I will not go into now I have to leave ! "family Illness" briefly put, and this is the opportunity I've been allowed to have at this time so I must take advantage of it !!!
Thank You Muse....
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Hi Ivanna,
I certainly think it is wise to look into a move but as stated in your quote above, this move is the opportunity you have been allowed to have.
I have not been to Braddock since the 60's so I can not speak with any authority about the crime in Braddock. You could get this info from police,
or researching through newspapers the crime.
I think that everyone with children need consider many things when making a move. How are the schools? How is transportaion? I mean as a single mom
who may not have a reliable vehicle how close are you to shopping, hospital/medical services? The house you are considering, is it in an area of alot of abandoned buildings? I know my sons both grown now but as children
they were explorers. Definately some dangers in going into old unsafe
buildings. I think it might be unsettling for a single mom to be residing in a
house surrounded by empty houses. We did it at the old High School when we were kids. So without knowing your exact situation and unsure of where exactly you will relocate it is hard to say.
I think if the house you are relocating to is in Mayor Fettermen's jurisdiction
he could probably answer all your questions. I understand he is happy to show people around. Might want to get in touch with him.
This certainly constitutes a great debate. Many people will have very keen
observations given their own experiences. One former resident here advises
not even to drive through there. He/She probably has some valid reasoning based on first hand experience.
When I lived there it was on the decline, everyone was poor, struggling and
wanted to move out. But I experienced Braddock not by the poverty, decline
and decay. I expereinced Braddock by the goodness of the people. People took care of each other, looked out for each other and when something hit
somebody hard the outpouring of kindness and giving was impressive.
Bad things happened as they do in every city all across the nation but as I
look back as an older person I learned lessons for life that I don't think I could of learned antwhere else.
Thinking maybe I will write a book and call it growing up Braddock. I have
some feirce pride in my roots and some greater understanding with the passage of years that all things good and bad served me well.
Whatever you decide should be after looking into it and considering all of
the needs/limits of your family.
But as you said this is the opportunity that has presented and as a christian
you can have the confidence that God's plan is the right plan.
Cheryl