Places to meet women in Pittsburgh as a young adult age 30 & over without going to clubs or bars? (Cheswick: shop, education)

[gladhands]

Originally Posted by Catia

I don't know whether to laugh or cry about this thread, cuz I'm way older than OP, & I just learned that I should probably be standing by the melons instead of the avocados if I wanted to try my luck.


OP--you better figure it out, tick-tock is what I'm saying, because 18-24 is young adult, but not 30 & up!!!


Take a class, join a cause you believe in, get involved with something, & also do the online thing, but balance it out-the online thing you will need because of your age, because it will be more difficult to meet women who are actually single & have time to date.


Most women in your age range, who are single are gonna already have kids/career, or both, & probably don't have much time for the bar scene anyway, they have tight schedules.
You were clear you don't drink, but you didn't say your stance on dating women with children.
And many single moms are gonna be in your age range.

This is absurd, and only holds true in small towns or extremely poor communities with low educational attainment. 18-24 is “college aged”, or what most reasonable adults might refer to as “kids”. Most people with choices aren’t starting families before their 30s, in the 21st century.

[Catia]

There is "tick tock", & it's not absurd the way I read the question:
read the heading The OP asked : about meeting women 30 & up is what it appears to read to me:


" Places to meet women in Pittsburgh as a young adult age 30 & over without going to clubs or bars "

What he did not say was "I am over 30 trying to meet young girls 18-24"




I can see how you may have read it, but if he is looking for women his own age-that do not drink in bars-for a relationhip, I think my answer is pretty realistic.


Age 30 is a full fledged adult. I'm not even sure why there is confusion here.


Now excuse me, but I am out of cantaloupe.

[guy2073]

Originally Posted by Catia

Now excuse me, but I am out of cantaloupe.

I am sorry to be so forward but can I go with you to giant eagle. I know how to pick out a good avocado.

[erieguy]

Originally Posted by guy2073

I am sorry to be so forward but can I go with you to giant eagle. I know how to pick out a good avocado.

You must spread some Reputation around before giving it to guy2073 again.

[justjagginyinz]

Meetup.com find your interests, join others that share in those interests and you will meet a ton of people.

[norcider]

Maybe bars should start selling avocados...

[Blue Shift]

If the OP has been here for 21 years but doesn't have any friends and "can't meet women" I don't think even avocados can help. He might want to read How To Win Friends And Influence People.

[villageidiot1]

Originally Posted by fleetiebelle

The OP hasn't clarified if there's a sobriety or a religious reason for abstaining from drinking. If there isn't, OP is limiting himself somewhat. Live music venues, trivia nights, sports bars during a game are all decent places to interact with people, even if you're not drinking.

It is one thing to abstain from drinking; it is another to refuse to go to places where other people are drinking. Some people will not go to a place where alcohol is served for religious reasons. If this is true for the OP, he should find a church with more women his age.

[Copanut]

Originally Posted by norcider

Maybe bars should start selling avocados...

I drove by this in Cheswick today, right next to Jessie, the Purple Elephant.

[villageidiot1]

Originally Posted by Copanut

I drove by this in Cheswick today, right next to Jessie, the Purple Elephant.

I think it is Chessie, as in Cheswick.