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I think some of the biggest misconceptions is the Pittsburgh is a dying, boring city. In comparison to some metro areas....I guess that is true. But overall...I think not.
Also on the diversity thing (sorry to bring it up again); I currently live in South Florida; North Miami Beach to be exact. I don't think you can get more diverse than this place. Growing up in the Mon Valley....one of my biggest laments was the homogeneity of the region (especially since I was a first generation American and my foreign-born family had to go through A LOT due to their accents and other cultural differences....this is back in the 70s and 80s). So I saw Florida as a welcome change. However, diversity comes with a lot of setbacks; A LOT. And if I were to measure the pros and cons on a scale (in relation to how they affect quality of life)...I see the type of diversity in South Florida as a minus for me personally.
Maybe I should explain. I happen to be a minority; born American of Jamaican parents. In Pittsburgh, your culture was an aspect of you -- and sometimes you may have been sharing that culture with a few others...but it wasn't all you were about. In Florida, you have at least a couple thousand people in any and every ethnic group you can think of....and you are always fighting stereotypes. I've only been here 4 years, and I constantly have to hear, "Oh, but I didn't know Jamaicans did this/work there/eat that" etc. etc. No one cares about what your own experiences are. I have a friend here who is Puerto Rican but grew up in Ohio and never learned Spanish. She gets criticized ALL THE TIME here about how she really needs to learn Spanish. Etc., etc.
I am not opposed to diversity at all. I still think Pittsburgh could only benefit from more immigrants and a more diverse population set. But to think that automatic tolerance and enlightenment and all these other automatic social improvements come with diversity is a big mistake. South Florida may be diverse, but I see NO sense of community here outside of ethnic ties and maybe....to a much lesser extent....professional ties. Other than that, no one cares about the collective place where we live. I do not have children...but if I did, I would not want to raise them here....no way.
Now from my viewpoint, I miss how in Pittsburgh there was more interaction and tolerance (yes, TOLERANCE) of different lifestyles, modes of living, etc. In Pittsburgh, if you are a minority, you are seen as more as a human being than as a member of an ethnic group. Yes, there is that "lack-of-exposure" racism going on in Pittsburgh. But I personally think that is the lesser of two evils when compared to meeting someone for the first-time and here it is they instantly think they are an expert on who you are just because their neighbor is of the same ethnic heritage as you are. And real mixing between the different ethnic groups is rare; which I'm just shocked by. Especially among Haitian-American vs. Jamaican-Americans vs. Trinidadian-Americans. It's probably the same among Latin groups (don't see it first-hand since I'm not Hispanic).
So why do I stay? Well I have to admit, that higher education here is an amazing bargain compared to PA. I'm currently paying out of pocket for undergrad pre-requisites to go to grad school for accounting. To take classes at a state school in Florida is around $70 per credit hour (so only $1,050 for a semester full-time). My sister goes to Edinboro and pays 3 times that (easily). True the cost of living in regards to everything else is much more. You can't get a house outside of the ghetto for less than $250,000.00 (and we DON'T get paid that much more).
So yeah, when I hear some of my 25-year old friends who are still living with their parents because they can't foot the $1000/month rent for a 1-bd make a face whenever I start talking about Pittsburgh, I can't help but shake my head!
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