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you want to talk about the 1% or probably even less of classic TV DV cases... the one's where the Doctor is an evil control freak and his stepford wife to afraid to leave.. ok thats fine.. but I am talking about real world DV..
everyone knows it takes TWO to tango and men and women deal with anger differently.. add alcahol, drugs, ect. to that mix and you get a time bomb.. a system truely interested in protecting people from DV and murder from DV knows we a needa system that deals with BOTH parties.. and NOT look at it as Women vs Men.. like you want to!
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IS A CHOICE! PERIOD! NO EXCUSES!
Thank you for reinforcing what it is I am saying. People like yourself are not interested in reducing DV in this country or really protecting people. Your only interest is in how it effects women! because women are always the victim and men are bad.. you all come across as men haters.
FUNNY because I have male clients that I have helped get protection orders against their partners for DV abuse.
This guy is dead and you couldn't care less.. I will find his obit and DM it to you so you can see that someone is really dead because of a screwed up system that people like yourself created
And YES I am all to familiar with your DV feel good one sided totaly biased training where you try to cram down our throats the philosophy that women are always the victim and men are always the abuser. And NONE of us buy it.. we play the game because we know thats what is politically correct but we ALL know the truth! and we all roll our eyes behind your back.. Where did I say women are always the victim?
we know DV because we are the ones dealing with it.. Not you.. We are IN the homes and we deal with these people day in and day out. we see the suffering, we see the pain.. and we see the dead bodies.
We are the only ones who really know whats going on and actually care enough to try and stop DV all together and protect everyone..
But back to some comment that you made about this sad case that cost a life.
He was NO ABUSER!!! But she was.. and without writing a novel on the story lets just say that the situation was mutual. It was she the pushed criminal charges. It was not a major DV case.. it started with threats on an answering machine when he was drunk.. OK i get it.. he broke the law.. and you are right... he never filed anything against her. But did you completely ignor the part where she would invite him back... for severl days at a time and ONLY call the police when they argued or she got sick of him.. IS that right?? should our systyem allow that?? he did NOTHING that deseerved him dying and having people like you gloating over it...
he was as much a victim from DV as she was.. but the system did nothing to protect him.
It does not matter if she invited him back he knew he would be in viiolation end of story you cannot blame her for him going. He was a big boy and made his own decision.
If he made threats to her when he drank maybe he should not drink! Being drunk is only an excuse to abuse. it does not matter to me if they are male or female a teen, gay, or a lesbian if they are in a DV situation and want help I will help them. So get off the high horse. And quit making assumption about me which you know nothing about!
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