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View Poll Results: If a man who identifies himself as "heterosexual" rapes another man is he really a homosex
yes 95 57.93%
no 69 42.07%
Voters: 164. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 05-25-2011, 02:43 PM
 
Location: Metro-Detroit area
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So all of the macho guys in the military who rape guys downrange are now gay?
They're criminals.
Stats, link, or b.s.!!!!
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:43 PM
 
Location: London
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Originally Posted by Neuling
Rape is all about power, not sexuality, no matter which sex the victim is. So, no, it has nothing to do with homosexuality.

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hells yes

Not where I come from. Shoot, as far as I'm concerned, if you find pleasure in another man's butthole, yous gay. (I put the "s" at the end of my words on purpose)
Where are you getting the idea of pleasure from in Neuling's post?
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:44 PM
 
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hells yes

Not where I come from. Shoot, as far as I'm concerned, if you find pleasure in another man's butthole, yous gay. (I put the "s" at the end of my words on purpose)
Rape isn't about pleasure.
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:45 PM
 
Location: West Coast of Europe
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hells yes

Not where I come from. Shoot, as far as I'm concerned, if you find pleasure in another man's butthole, yous gay. (I put the "s" at the end of my words on purpose)
Wherever you come from, it doesn't matter. However it is, it applies to Brooklyn and LA and Tokyo and Manila just the same as we are all humans.
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:46 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Rape and child molestation are not OK and are Very Bad Things regardless of who the victims are.

As for a man who engages in a consensual sexual relationship with another man being gay or not, definitions of sexual identity have changed over the years. The definition of a man who's the "catcher" being gay while the man who's the "pitcher" not being gay is older than the definition considering both to be gay. Most men who regularly partake in consensual sex with other men and who declare themselves to be hetero are in reality bi....
When someone says that "the definitions of sexual identity have changed over the years"... it automatically puts up a red flag for me.

I believe what has happened is that things in our society are becoming more permissible, and in previous years the same behavior would be unacceptable.

Pop culture determines what is acceptable in Popular Society, but in reality the same moral dilemma exists in the same manner as it did in years past and the people who are punching the envelope are sexually conflicted when they claim they're hetero and exhibit homosexual behavior.

I think some men demean the position a female has in society when he says he's straight and sleeps with men. It's as if they don't recognize that females have a sexual function and men have a sexual function, and for a man to become sexually involved with a male (and claim they're heterosexual) completely turns society upside down.

If you're gay be gay, but don't claim you're straight and sleep with someone who's got the same parts as you do.
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Unperson Everyman Land
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Humans ARE animals, especially with those things that are controlled by the oldest parts of the human brain. Jails are terrible places, very inhumane, thus they bring out inhumane, i.e. animal behavior in humans.

Yes, but humans have the unique ability to choose to be something more than an ignorant animal.
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:49 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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Rape isn't about pleasure.
Can a man achieve an erection necessary to commit rape on a male if he's not anticipating some sexual pleasure from act of rape?
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:51 PM
 
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I can't believe some of the posts I am reading. If you partipate in homosexual activity, i don't care if it's rape or bondage or whatever, you are gay. Hence the word homoSEXUAL. There is no gray area. It's like being halfway pregnant. WTF?
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Old 05-25-2011, 02:52 PM
 
Location: Metro-Detroit area
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I'm 100% heterosexual, but I'm not willing to say what I might do if I went without hetero sex for a year or ten...Halle Berry would be tempting.
Y\That's why you have two hands, Sally and Mae!!!...you have a mattress , put a hole in it draw some tiddies, draw some hair in the right places, there's your wife.. You got a pillow??..pump it up.

It's mighty suspect all the dudes trying to say sticking your jones in another man's mouth or butt doesn't qualify as homosexual, because power and domination may be involved...

I'm a man, lock me up for a decade. Now another man with man muscle butt checks, a rusty azz, and so much hair growing from between those cheeks it looks like a mohawk is laying around me with cracked heels a mustache and beard, and big ol' man shoulders; this is suppose to give me an erection???

I want to punk him out so I get hard??...really??

Bottom line. You see a man and get an erection at the sight of that man, stick yourself up his crappy butthole, and you want to walk around talking about your'e not gay???...forget about it!!!

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Old 05-25-2011, 02:55 PM
 
Location: deafened by howls of 'racism!!!'
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I can't believe some of the posts I am reading. If you partipate in homosexual activity, i don't care if it's rape or bondage or whatever, you are gay. Hence the word homoSEXUAL. There is no gray area. It's like being halfway pregnant. WTF?
yup.

but in a matter of minutes, someone is going to chime in and tell you how ignorant you are.
watch.
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