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Old 12-08-2011, 12:20 PM
 
Location: Kansas City, MO
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Interesting article:

Gay Guise: When Straight Men Have Sex With Other Men | Psychology Today

No doubt some of the men who do this are merely claiming to be straight. However, I don't doubt and know for a fact actual straight men do engage in sexual activity with other men, which may blow some folks minds that have a pretty narrow/naive/innocent perspective of what really goes on in this world. From the relatively mild receiving oral, to using other men's anuses as a means to get off, to men who aren't necessarily attracted to other men and are attracted to women but enjoy anal sex.

As it stands, if you're relatively young and you've been around you will at least know of a straight guy who has received oral. Although, any activity beyond that is still a bit too taboo and will seriously cause others to suspect a man is really gay, so any admissions are generally limited to receiving oral. However, with homosexuality becoming more acceptable, I think the idea of straight men having sex with other men will as well.

What strikes me the most is the bit where the article suggests, which I believe is true, that it requires more social skills to have sex with women than with men. Lazy straight men using other guys to get off, for sexual release?

What do you think?

 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:23 PM
 
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I don't think about it.

And there is no such thing as a straight man having sex with another man willingly.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Kansas City, MO
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I don't think about it.

And there is no such thing as a straight man having sex with another man willingly.
You may want to believe that, but it is simply not true. You replied too quckly to have even read the article.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Montgomery Village
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If you are a man and willingly have sex with another man, you are not straight. Bi maybe but that is another debate.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:26 PM
 
Location: Maryland
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I guess you could call them bi.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:29 PM
 
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And there is no such thing as a straight man having sex with another man willingly.
Not according to what I see on Craigslist/M4M. Hell - at least a third of them claim to be straight! Of course, this is partially explained by the fact that straight guys are generally considered to be more masculine than gay guys, so you get a lot of guys who prefer to identify as straight, even if they're not 100% hetero.

In the end, I say let people identify their sexuality however they want. There are way too many variances in human sexuality to try to put everyone in a box.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:29 PM
 
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I guess you have to define what it means to be straight, bisexual, and gay. If a man prefers women but can become sexually aroused by a man, is he really straight or is he at least somewhat bisexual?
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:30 PM
 
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Interesting article:

Gay Guise: When Straight Men Have Sex With Other Men | Psychology Today

No doubt some of the men who do this are merely claiming to be straight. However, I don't doubt and know for a fact actual straight men do engage in sexual activity with other men, which may blow some folks minds that have a pretty narrow/naive/innocent perspective of what really goes on in this world. From the relatively mild receiving oral, to using other men's anuses as a means to get off, to men who aren't necessarily attracted to other men and are attracted to women but enjoy anal sex.

As it stands, if you're relatively young and you've been around you will at least know of a straight guy who has received oral. Although, any activity beyond that is still a bit too taboo and will seriously cause others to suspect a man is really gay, so any admissions are generally limited to receiving oral. However, with homosexuality becoming more acceptable, I think the idea of straight men having sex with other men will as well.

What strikes me the most is the bit where the article suggests, which I believe is true, that it requires more social skills to have sex with women than with men. Lazy straight men using other guys to get off, for sexual release?

What do you think?
Obama's socialist policies have really driven gay sex out of control in this country.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:31 PM
 
Location: Stillwater, Oklahoma
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My guess a significant percentage of men have sex with men while in prison, but once released from prison, are delighted to realize they are free to have sex with women again and quickly lose any more interest in men.
 
Old 12-08-2011, 12:32 PM
 
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Obama's socialist policies have really driven gay sex out of control in this country.
Leave it to an Obama-hater to draw a relationship between socialism and sexual acts.
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