how is being against gay marriage NOT a hateful stance? (poll, gay people)

[Rlarson21]

I hear so many people say.. 'i don't hate gays but i'm against gay marriage'.

How does that even make any sense?

you're against something that has NOTHING to do with you affects YOU an NO way, but DOES affect GAY PEOPLE"S lives ONLY.. and in a NEGATIVE WAY/

isn't that like saying that 'i don't hate you but i'm not for you having any food'

or hitting someone in the face and saying you don't hate them.

Since being gay is NOT a choice, what do you EXPECT them to do? and WHY do you want to make people suffer for NO REASON with no benefit to you?

Isn't that the definition of SADISTIC?

Do you think they should marry straight people and have unloving sham marriages?

I'm JUST NOT understanding the mentality of the i don't hate gays but i'm against gay marriage crowd.

would they be willing to visit gay families and tell them this to their face?

or all gay people just 'the unreal they' to them?

[theunbrainwashed]

Isn't this the 50th topic, with the same premise, that you have started this year alone? Are you taking a poll every month to see if anyone's reactions changed from February?

[Hot_Handz]

lol @ "Gay Family"

there's an oxymoron