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Originally Posted by Mylläri
You're confusing education with actions, one can teach abstinence and one can practice abstinence. Once can practice abstinence but when one has sexual relations they are not practicing abstinence. You cannot claim to be practicing abstience if you're having sex no more than a vegan can claim to be a vegan while eating a pork chop. This should be simple and easy to understand.
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No confusion. We are back to the theory vs. practice debate.
According to the principles of your religious background:
-- Educate youth on the importance of abstinence. Eliminate contraceptives.
-- They become adults, and, are supposed to practice abstinence. Wait until marriage.
In reality, some do.
But, importantly, some, (despite being taught to practice abstinence, and, even when required by religious faith to practice abstinence), do not--a series of folks falter. At an alarmingly high rate.
As mentioned in another thread, states who provide youth with abstinence-only education end up with the highest rates of teenage pregnancy. When looking at women who have abortions by religious background, over 70% are of Catholic or Protestant religious faith. Clergy, required to abstain from sex, have demonstrated time and time again, their inability to do so.
Indeed, simple and easy to understand--abstinence is only effective when practiced. It's not always practiced. Therefore you can be proactive about this reality--or, you can continue to dream, avoid reality, and, in turn, spin wheels.