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View Poll Results: How would you react to discovering your partner had a sex change previously?
I'd feel humiliated and degraded - cut off all contact forever 39 69.64%
Attempt a trial seperation until we worked out if we could overcome this 1 1.79%
Attempt a trial seperation but aim to overcome this - afterall everything has been fine beforehand 4 7.14%
Forgive and forget - love is about connection, not gender 13 23.21%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 56. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-28-2012, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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I think as so many of you have stated, the problem persay would not be the fact of being humiliated.

If a person is upfront from day one, there many not be that much of an issue. Sorry people but you cannot help who it is you fall in love with.

I have watched shows on cable, of this same issue, a man meeting a beautiful woman, that was born a man. Tell you something, i had to do a double take, some of these men, must have been damn good looking men. To be really a hot beautiful looking woman. The men have been commited to these relationships, out of the 3 only one walked.

Watch who it is you meet in a bar scense, things on the outside, are not what is going on inside!

Would that have made a difference, guess we will never know.

In Brazil, transgender men-to-women are often more beautiful and feminine than those born women. They really revel in being female, and they do it in a big way. There are even contests devoted to the Miss Brazil-Transgender pageant. Culturally it isn't taboo for a straight man to marry one of these post-op transsexuals; a few years ago a celebrity ( a boxer, I think) did and no-one battered an eyelid. Can you image how the media here would react if Mike Tyson married a transgender? Oh he must be gay
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Old 11-28-2012, 05:31 PM
 
Location: California
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Default Husband discovers wife was born a man. Forgive and forget?

End it immediately, deception is not a good bed to build a marriage on.
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Old 11-28-2012, 07:39 PM
 
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Bernard Boursicot - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

This guy thought his lover was a woman for decades! He was really a dude! Even fooled the French guy into thinking he was pregnant and had their "love" child.

Okay, how can you have sex with someone for YEARS...and not know? Me thinks French and British guys must be lousy in bed if they can sleep with dudes for decades and be clueless....no plastic surgery is as good as the real thing.
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Old 11-28-2012, 08:55 PM
 
Location: Sometimes Miami sometimes Australia
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Bernard Boursicot - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

This guy thought his lover was a woman for decades! He was really a dude! Even fooled the French guy into thinking he was pregnant and had their "love" child.

Okay, how can you have sex with someone for YEARS...and not know? Me thinks French and British guys must be lousy in bed if they can sleep with dudes for decades and be clueless....no plastic surgery is as good as the real thing.

Which makes me believe there are many more waiting to be discovered. Perhaps even the wives of the men on this forum...
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Old 11-28-2012, 09:44 PM
 
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They must never stick their face down there for close up action to go so long and not realize there's a problem. Or they've never seen any other one but that and just don't know the difference.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:24 PM
 
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As is indicated here, there are guys that have no problem with it.

So why would these make believe females have to deceive other men?...That indicates that they are mentally ill, or simply recognize the wrongness of it.

People have rights to know fully who they are getting involved with.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:27 PM
 
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There's no way a manufactured ***** feels as good as the real thing. This guy is a total moron for not noticing. He must have been a virgin and broke the seal with this manwomanthing and simply didn't know the difference.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:29 PM
 
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They must never stick their face down there for close up action to go so long and not realize there's a problem. Or they've never seen any other one but that and just don't know the difference.
I agree. An inverted and converted weiner can't be anything like the real thing. This guy was an idiot.
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:32 PM
 
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I agree. An inverted and converted weiner can't be anything like the real thing. This guy was an idiot.
They aren't all identical clones - there is no standard 'look', size, colour or anything else - like faces, every single one is different

You obviously haven't seen very many. Im suspecting you may have already encountered a "inverted and converted weiner" and were none the wiser
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Old 11-28-2012, 10:41 PM
 
Location: somewhere in the woods
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Interesting news item from Europe today:

LONDON: A 64-year-old Belgian man wants to have his marriage annulled after he discovered that his Indonesian wife of 19 years had been born a man and had later undergone a sex change, British media reported on Tuesday.

Jokes aside, this could happen to anyone.

What would you do if you discovered your partner was previous the same sex as you and later surgically altered to be the opposite sex? Someone you have loved and cared for had a sex change before they met you - and you had no idea - would it make a difference? Once overcoming the intial shock - would it be worth continuing? Would you feel deceived, shocked or elated? Would you try to understand the reasons behind keeping such a secret, and attempt forgiveness, or would you write them off as liars?

Would your love survive?

(full story here
ONLINE - International News Network

the marriage was done on a lie, have it anulled.
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