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Should we be bashing ALL heterosexuals just because some of them act stupidly? NO
Then why do some of you guys feel the need to bash ALL of us based on the acts of a few?
There are many many homosexuals not sleeping around, just like there are many heterosexuals not sleeping around.
There are some of each that do.
There are people that say we are shoving it down your throats, just for us doing the same exact things you guys do every day. I am tired of being accused of shoving down others throats, simply by holding hands in public.
This crap has got to end.
It often seems as if many people forget that the US is supposed to be the land of the free, that we all share the same rights, regardless of sexual orientation, economic situation, race or gender. Without those freedoms we would become a totalitarian nation. Every wedding announcement in the paper, every wedding procession heading down the street is an expression of the couples sexuality. Being straight is shoved down our throats constantly, cannot watch TV without seeing it all the time. We are free to express ourselves in this country, we are free to be who we are and not what society wants us to be.
It often seems as if many people forget that the US is supposed to be the land of the free, that we all share the same rights, regardless of sexual orientation, economic situation, race or gender. Without those freedoms we would become a totalitarian nation. Every wedding announcement in the paper, every wedding procession heading down the street is an expression of the couples sexuality. Being straight is shoved down our throats constantly, cannot watch TV without seeing it all the time. We are free to express ourselves in this country, we are free to be who we are and not what society wants us to be.
The bolded took me a while to get. I tried so hard to be what society expected. I even got married.
Luckily my ex is a wonderful man, and he found a wonderful woman who can love him like he deserves. They are good friends.
It would have been nice to just be me from the start, and not have to TRY to be what society expected of me.
The bolded took me a while to get. I tried so hard to be what society expected. I even got married.
Luckily my ex is a wonderful man, and he found a wonderful woman who can love him like he deserves. They are good friends.
It would have been nice to just be me from the start, and not have to TRY to be what society expected of me.
I almost got married at the end of high school, but I had to be honest with my girlfriend, I told her that I was gay from the start and she thought that we could work it out between us. I did not think it was fair to do to her what my older brother did to his two wives. Be what you are and everything falls in place, pretend and it can all fall down later and you only have yourself to blame, but you end up hurting so many innocent people, just to live a lie to satisfy those afraid of you. I am happy being gay, but I am unhappy with society wanting to force me and my fellow gay brothers and sisters into a pigeon hole they think we belong in. Honesty is always the best policy, especially with oneself.
I almost got married at the end of high school, but I had to be honest with my girlfriend, I told her that I was gay from the start and she thought that we could work it out between us. I did not think it was fair to do to her what my older brother did to his two wives. Be what you are and everything falls in place, pretend and it can all fall down later and you only have yourself to blame, but you end up hurting so many innocent people, just to live a lie to satisfy those afraid of you. I am happy being gay, but I am unhappy with society wanting to force me and my fellow gay brothers and sisters into a pigeon hole they think we belong in. Honesty is always the best policy, especially with oneself.
I can say I am happier, after coming out, that I ever was before.
I was heavily medicated for depression before, those drugs turned me into a zombie, now, I take no drugs and I'm happy with my life.
If someone else can't deal with the way I live, then it's their problem not mine. I even have some family members that no longer speak to me, but it is their loss and I'll be here waiting if they change their minds.
I can say I am happier, after coming out, that I ever was before.
I was heavily medicated for depression before, those drugs turned me into a zombie, now, I take no drugs and I'm happy with my life.
If someone else can't deal with the way I live, then it's their problem not mine. I even have some family members that no longer speak to me, but it is their loss and I'll be here waiting if they change their minds.
I don't hide anymore. I live my life.
My older brother will not talk to me, he is mad at me for marrying my partner, said I was sinning and made the cross and asked god to forgive me. I got mad at him and said I do not need his forgiveness, nor his prayer. I think of him as a hypocrite, he married twice, divorced twice. His first wife cheated on him because he neglected their sex life, his second wife came to me one day and said she was divorcing him because she could no longer tolerate his cheating on her with his boyfriends. He lied to his wives and himself. He even said to me that the church told him that performing gay sex was a sin and he would go to hades and that he hates himself now. He was born in 1951 when the op seems to think that gays did not exist or that people were not aware of them. My brother is born again for like the third time, yet he is still sinning in his eyes and cannot stop sinning with men. My uncle is in his 80's, is gay and yet got married in the 50's to hide his being gay. Homosexuals have been around as long as we have been around, several million years now.
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