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Old 02-06-2013, 11:55 AM
 
Location: Northern CA
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Real Sex has been on cable, like HBO or as you say Showtime, for YEARS. How you didn't know that show was on a cable channel is beyond me. And it was 10 or later, I've never seen it on earlier than that. P.S. This wasn't a public school this happened at, it was a lutheran school. How you like them apples? Guess you didn't read the article.
I don't care how long it's been on tv, it's porn and should be on XXX rated adult channels only.
I am saying I'd be homeschooling if I had kids today. I would protect them from ugliness as long as possible.

On the other hand, I would have high expectations if my kid was in a private school. I would be asking questions every day about what they did, what the teacher did, be involved people!
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Old 02-06-2013, 11:56 AM
 
Location: Too far from home.
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This country is long past the time to wake up, we are lost to the point of no return. To actually have people saying this is no big deal and blown out of proportion - who raised them? chimps?

Kids are supposed to be innocent!
Freedom, freedom, freedom. You will be told if you don't like it turn it off.

Hard to blame parents that can't afford private school. And no matter how hard parents try to monitor their children it's hard to catch it all. Everything a kid wants to see and to satisfy their curiosity can be accessed on their mobile.

Chimps probably do a better job raising their offspring.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:03 PM
 
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I don't care how long it's been on tv, it's porn and should be on XXX rated adult channels only.
I am saying I'd be homeschooling if I had kids today. I would protect them from ugliness as long as possible.

On the other hand, I would have high expectations if my kid was in a private school. I would be asking questions every day about what they did, what the teacher did, be involved people!
Huh, I don't remember Real Sex being porn. I do recall strippers though.
You didn't mention homeschooling, you strictly only mentioned public schools which led me to believe that you have beef w/public schools & that you hadn't read the article.
Of course a 5 year old giving a blow-job isn't your normal "playing doctor" behavior but I'm betting that she probably saw her parents doing it, kids like to mimic things they see or hear their parents doing, and also that the girl had absolutely no idea what she was doing. Seriously, a 5 year old really has no concept that she's giving a blowjob & what it's intentions are. Obviously you can't have this kind of behavior going on in a school environment, that's unacceptable & clearly it needed to be better monitored & stopped. However, you can't monitor & stop every single thing that kids do. It's impossible. All parents, even the ones who claim to be superparents, can admit, albeit sheepishly, to that.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:13 PM
 
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Huh, I don't remember Real Sex being porn. I do recall strippers though.
You didn't mention homeschooling, you strictly only mentioned public schools which led me to believe that you have beef w/public schools & that you hadn't read the article.
Of course a 5 year old giving a blow-job isn't your normal "playing doctor" behavior but I'm betting that she probably saw her parents doing it, kids like to mimic things they see or hear their parents doing, and also that the girl had absolutely no idea what she was doing. Seriously, a 5 year old really has no concept that she's giving a blowjob & what it's intentions are. Obviously you can't have this kind of behavior going on in a school environment, that's unacceptable & clearly it needed to be better monitored & stopped. However, you can't monitor & stop every single thing that kids do. It's impossible. All parents, even the ones who claim to be superparents, can admit, albeit sheepishly, to that.
I doubt the kid (if that's how she learned it) learned it from watching her parents. Most likely she's never met her dad.

You'd be shocked how many stories I've heard from friends\families and lawyer acquaintances where "mom" is a drunken bar fly that shows up at 2am and noisly bangs the guy she just met on the couch while her 7yo kid is sleeping 10 feet away on a futon....and dad is nowhere in the picture.

I've heard even creepier stuff than that....the world is really fkd up sometimes.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:20 PM
 
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I doubt the kid (if that's how she learned it) learned it from watching her parents. Most likely she's never met her dad.

You'd be shocked how many stories I've heard from friends\families and lawyer acquaintances where "mom" is a drunken bar fly that shows up at 2am and noisly bangs the guy she just met on the couch while her 7yo kid is sleeping 10 feet away on a futon....and dad is nowhere in the picture.

I've heard even creepier stuff than that....the world is really fkd up sometimes.
Ok, well then there's no dad. Then I'll say she could've learned it by seeing her mom & some random dude going at it.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:20 PM
 
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My wager is that one or more of the kids involved was taught that by an adult molester and brought it to school with them.
Or maybe they or one of them caught the adults in the act. That's why doors need to be seriously locked during sex. I'm not into this keeping doors open thing. You're going to have sex? Use the lock.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:35 PM
 
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Or maybe they or one of them caught the adults in the act. That's why doors need to be seriously locked during sex. I'm not into this keeping doors open thing. You're going to have sex? Use the lock.
Right?? Who wants their kids to walk in on them in the middle of it? Shudder. Not to mention, who could possibly stay in the mood afterward? And who wouldn't be paranoid beforehand worrying about it? Nooo thank youuu.
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Old 02-06-2013, 12:47 PM
 
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Right?? Who wants their kids to walk in on them in the middle of it? Shudder. Not to mention, who could possibly stay in the mood afterward? And who wouldn't be paranoid beforehand worrying about it? Nooo thank youuu.
It's pretty horrible, and would ruin my day, my week, and my year. Kids aren't meant to walk in on parents having sex.
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Old 02-06-2013, 01:03 PM
 
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In case no one has noticed children are being integrated into adult life from birth. They are exposed to and tossed into adult activities because mom and dad want to continue their lives without interruption.
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Old 02-06-2013, 01:06 PM
 
Location: Southern California
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My wager is that one or more of the kids involved was taught that by an adult molester and brought it to school with them.
Hopefully, I'll win that bet.

[but unfortunately, these days it seems the probability that I will lose is not insignificant ]
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