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Yes indeed, TRY not to get pregnant. But if you do and you can't take care of it don't make it anyone elses problem. You talk as if people are getting pregnant on purpose so they can go have a fun abortion. You also talk as if a large % of people aren't idiots. Here is a heads up...they are. That's why your utopian way of life isn't possible and all we can realistically do is prevent the problems from overwhelming society.
Speaking as a straight and single 36 year-old woman... yes, I probably would break up with any man who wouldn't (eventually) have sex with me. Honest truth right there!
Speaking as a straight and single 36 year-old woman... yes, I probably would break up with any man who wouldn't (eventually) have sex with me. Honest truth right there!
You have no interest in sex unless you are married and ready to procreate, that's fine. Others very much do however and getting married to have sex is not the answer, that will only lead to divorce. You know it, I know it, so why argue about it. Being celibate your whole life is not nomal, there is no possible way you can implement that on a large scale.
I am a child whose parents divorced.
I would also not exist had the Vietnam War not occurred.
But my mother always taught me "don't buy a pair of shoes before trying them on!" And this coming from a woman who did wait until marriage, and was (somewhat) regretful of that choice. Truth of the matter is, sexual compatibility is an important factor in a marriage/relationship. So what if you marry, and then find out you're not compatible? I guess a virgin wouldn't know any better, but might eventually wonder why their friends seem to have more fun - or why they have the urge to stray. Hmmm.
I would also not exist had the Vietnam War not occurred.
My parents are divorced too (see a trend with my above post?), but that's neither here nor there. I also wouldn't exist if the weather hadn't been cold that January evening, and my niece wouldn't exist if USC hadn't made it to the Rose Bowl that year. We're all just the result of good timing and a hearty swimmer/sperm, when you think about it.
Still doesn't mean divorce is a GOOD thing, and the less we see the better. Any potential children that may or may not have been conceived, if that poorly-matched couple hadn't married, wouldn't even be known to us. So who cares?
I would also not exist had the Vietnam War not occurred.
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My parents are divorced too (see a trend with my above post?), but that's neither here nor there. I also wouldn't exist if the weather hadn't been cold that January evening, and my niece wouldn't exist if USC hadn't made it to the Rose Bowl that year. We're all just the result of good timing and a hearty swimmer/sperm, when you think about it.
Still doesn't mean divorce is a GOOD thing, and the less we see the better. Any potential children that may or may not have been conceived, if that poorly-matched couple hadn't married, wouldn't even be known to us. So who cares?
A girl I dated has divorced parents and they waited until marriage. Turns out her dad was gay. Yet another reason to try things out first. He was a pretty cool guy though.
Why do you live in LA? Wouldn't a more religious state be more to your liking? I would think your odds are better at finding a like minded woman in a more conservative state.
There are plenty of likeminded women here, but it takes more than similarity in thinking to forge a lifetime relationship.
I live near L.A. because it is home - and a sense of home is hard to shake, even if it is sullied by liberalism.
I love my family(many members whom are liberal) and I love my homes(California and Washington).
Good for you, but most people eventually make the choice to have sex (whether they're married or not). Why do you think everyone has to make the same decisions as you? Narcissistic much?
Here is the breakdown.
Friends with benefits - You are friends that have sex
Booty call/F. buddy - Call when you want booty
GF - relationship that, in my case, includes sex.
Friend zone - you are friends and want more, but one of you doesn't.
Baby momma - woman that had your kid and you may or may not currently have a relationship with her.
Wife - Someone you signed a contract with plus one of the previous.
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