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Why don't we shame women that sleep with criminals or drug dealers? Why don't we shame women that get pregnant knowing the father won't be around? Why don't we shame women that get pregnant on purpose when they don't have a job? Why don't we shame women that sleep with poor men? If a man has a job he is paying child support either by choice or by force. 3 months without payment is going to result in suspended driver/occupational license, passport, and a stay in jail. However, that doesn't mean the mom won't be sucking on the state.
Women have the sole choice in deciding to become pregnant. Personally (from a dating perspective), I don't even like single mothers. The way I look at it is "I didn't F up my life, so don't come crawling to me because you did." I could care less if we were just talking about 40 yr old women, but 18 yr olds with kids?? No thanks!
I don't see a 40 year old woman with a child as messing up her life. It's actually pretty normal folks do get divorced, spouses die.
]Why don't we shame women that sleep with criminals or drug dealers? Why don't we shame women that get pregnant knowing the father won't be around?[/b] Why don't we shame women that get pregnant on purpose when they don't have a job? Why don't we shame women that sleep with poor men? If a man has a job he is paying child support either by choice or by force. 3 months without payment is going to result in suspended driver/occupational license, passport, and a stay in jail. However, that doesn't mean the mom won't be sucking on the state.
Women have the sole choice in deciding to become pregnant. Personally (from a dating perspective), I don't even like single mothers. The way I look at it is "I didn't F up my life, so don't come crawling to me because you did." I could care less if we were just talking about 40 yr old women, but 18 yr olds with kids?? No thanks!
We kind of do. Furthermore regardless folks are going to ****. The issue is dealing with the consequences afterwords.
Additionally women cannot get pregnant by themselves. I think both the man and the woman bear equal responsibility. The issue is getting the man to stick around such that we don't have studs running around creating six figure welfare liabilities.
With that said I am in 100% agreement with the red part.
Before feminism and female sexuality it was worse. This was because it was even more one sided in that men were event more encouraged to try and get as much sex as possible and women were viewed as sluts and bore all the blame if they gave in.
This point is just silly and doesn't address the topics the OP is highlighting. Worse how? I suspect men and women were just as sexually aroused before the sexual revolution as they are now. Except their rules to the game.
It is estimated that up to a 1/3 of the marriages before the 60s came about because of an unplanned pregnancy out of wedlock. Shotgun weddings were very real.
We kind of do. Furthermore regardless folks are going to ****. The issue is dealing with the consequences afterwords.
Additionally women cannot get pregnant by themselves. I think both the man and the woman bear equal responsibility. The issue is getting the man to stick around such that we don't have studs running around creating six figure welfare liabilities.
With that said I am in 100% agreement with the red part.
American women go after "studs". This is the culture.
We kind of do. Furthermore regardless folks are going to ****. The issue is dealing with the consequences afterwords.
Additionally women cannot get pregnant by themselves. I think both the man and the woman bear equal responsibility. The issue is getting the man to stick around such that we don't have studs running around creating six figure welfare liabilities.
With that said I am in 100% agreement with the red part.
What you think is one thing, the realities of biology are entirely another. Most people throughout the ages recognized this very salient fact. Women carry babies and thus if they are not wed the responsibility to raise the child will fall upon her.
Unfortunately dreams and silliness crept in the 60s and things became worse.
The solution is not to blindly go after single parents. We need to understand why states like NC are so messed up that 26% of children there are living in poverty while states like NH, only 12% are living in poverty. If (big if) it's because NC has more births out of wedlock/relationship... why is that the case?
American women go after "studs". This is the culture.
This is nonsense. Anyone who wants women can get them. Even women can get women.
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