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Old 03-04-2014, 09:53 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Oh and FWIW, I don't think the girl should get the car. Why should she? She didn't buy it and I doubt it is in her name.

I "give" my kids a room in my house while they are there. Just because I "give" them a place to stay in my property doesn't mean they own the room and the girl more than likely doesn't own the car, her parents do. That one is really ridiculous.
Yeah, the car is probably just a demand coming from a spoiled brat. Depending on the way the college fund is set up, she might be entitled to it, but probably isn't.

I also doubt that parents who would send their kid to private school and set up and contribute to a college fund for them would kick them out of the house while still in high school. That's just illogical.
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Old 03-04-2014, 09:54 AM
 
Location: the very edge of the continent
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Not anymore.

Now an 18 year old can declare themselves independent on the government student loan form.
Not on FAFSA, according to the federal government.
http://studentaid.ed.gov/sites/defau...dependency.pdf
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Old 03-04-2014, 10:45 AM
 
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I'd want to know what happened before passing judgment.

I know of a guy that remarried and has been shoving his own kids out of the nest so to speak because the new wife wants it that way.

Could be the girl went all princess and the parents revolted.

Hard to say what went so wrong in the relationship but it's a shame.
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Old 03-04-2014, 11:36 AM
 
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This is what happens when you raise a child on time out.
I completely agree!
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Old 03-04-2014, 12:12 PM
 
Location: Upstate NY 🇺🇸
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What would I do?

I'd invite her to 1) step away from the mirror and, 2) do some household chores. What a brat.

"How sharper than a serpent's tooth it is to have a thankless child."
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Old 03-04-2014, 12:53 PM
 
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Parents watch out... You OWE your kids!
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Old 03-04-2014, 12:56 PM
 
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She just might win a lot....based upon "affluency".....
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Old 03-04-2014, 12:59 PM
 
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Wow.

So lets discuss law, and right and wrong. they're different in this case

In MANY states-parents are responsible for their children up to the age of 21 if they are attending school. By law its VERY possible these parents need to pay for her last term at high school.

If you GIVE someone a car-it doesn't matter if your name is on the title. Really. You can argue "the cars mine-her name isn't on the title!" But when the judge says "did you give it to her? Was it a gift?" You're doomed.

Basically you have the great intersection of a lawyer, a kid who is now an adult-but is still a kid in high school, and parents that want to control the kid-who is now an adult.

My guess-the parents are going to lose. The lawyers going to get richer, and someday the kid will grow up. But all of its a pretty bad situation.

A GOOD parent would let the 18 year old grow up some-no curfew, no designating who they date. Those aren't rules for a household, they are rules for control-which kids need-but losing those is what turns kids into adults.

A GOOD kid would work around the crazy parents by keeping their curfew and other stupid rules, and work on finding work to move out with.

A GOOD lawyer-whose kid is apparently involved as the boyfriend.....would advise the kid to find work, and stand on her own, and that the car and bills aren't worth the familial dispute long term. This is not that sort of lawyer.

Because all sides have failed, a judge gets to rule on the law of it. And in many states the parents would lose.
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Old 03-04-2014, 01:02 PM
 
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For those considering kids watch carefully.
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Old 03-04-2014, 01:05 PM
 
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And who's fighting "free birth control"? Attorneys?
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