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I hope this doesn't come across as rude, but I've noticed something...
Every job I have, there is always some sort of issue with a female employee. Not necessarily with me personally, but some female employee is always causing a fuss over something.
One job I worked, a female employee was rude to everyone (customers and coworkers), yet never got in trouble because the supervisor was a female.
At my current job, there is a female employee who always seems to have some sort of personal issue with just about everyone. She also has crying breakdowns in front of coworkers.
My wife has noticed the same thing at her job. Female coworkers starting drama, complaining, calling out all the time. My wife also seems to have issues with other employees. It seems like at least a few times a month there is some sort of complaint about a female coworker causing drama or being rude.
When I worked in technology, 99% of the workforce was men. I had no problems at all. Maybe the occasional lazy employee, but he was usually dealt with quickly. Now that I work in education, I am one of the few male employees in my department. It's nothing but gossip, drama, and complaining non stop. I kind of just sit there like "yeah..... right...."
It seems like men just come to work, do what they are supposed to, keep their mouth shut, then come home... Which is like the complete opposite of what my wife and many other female employees do.
I had a female co-worker who talked all the time, mostly about stuff that didn't matter. She was a rather annoying distraction. The boss would sometimes get after her about it, but it never helped much.
I hope this doesn't come across as rude, but I've noticed something...
Every job I have, there is always some sort of issue with a female employee. Not necessarily with me personally, but some female employee is always causing a fuss over something.
One job I worked, a female employee was rude to everyone (customers and coworkers), yet never got in trouble because the supervisor was a female.
At my current job, there is a female employee who always seems to have some sort of personal issue with just about everyone. She also has crying breakdowns in front of coworkers.
My wife has noticed the same thing at her job. Female coworkers starting drama, complaining, calling out all the time. My wife also seems to have issues with other employees. It seems like at least a few times a month there is some sort of complaint about a female coworker causing drama or being rude.
When I worked in technology, 99% of the workforce was men. I had no problems at all. Maybe the occasional lazy employee, but he was usually dealt with quickly. Now that I work in education, I am one of the few male employees in my department. It's nothing but gossip, drama, and complaining non stop. I kind of just sit there like "yeah..... right...."
It seems like men just come to work, do what they are supposed to, keep their mouth shut, then come home... Which is like the complete opposite of what my wife and many other female employees do.
Obviously, there are exceptions to this.
Has anyone else noticed this?
I'm going to catch so much hell for this, but as a woman, I have always liked to work in a work space with more men than women. Not all women are like you have described but from my experience, men are just easier. Yes, they sometimes might be outright d---s, but other than that they are usually pretty straightforward. Some women, and I do emphasize some, are masters at back biting and manipulation.
I hope this doesn't come across as rude, but I've noticed something...
Every job I have, there is always some sort of issue with a female employee. Not necessarily with me personally, but some female employee is always causing a fuss over something.
One job I worked, a female employee was rude to everyone (customers and coworkers), yet never got in trouble because the supervisor was a female.
At my current job, there is a female employee who always seems to have some sort of personal issue with just about everyone. She also has crying breakdowns in front of coworkers.
My wife has noticed the same thing at her job. Female coworkers starting drama, complaining, calling out all the time. My wife also seems to have issues with other employees. It seems like at least a few times a month there is some sort of complaint about a female coworker causing drama or being rude.
When I worked in technology, 99% of the workforce was men. I had no problems at all. Maybe the occasional lazy employee, but he was usually dealt with quickly. Now that I work in education, I am one of the few male employees in my department. It's nothing but gossip, drama, and complaining non stop. I kind of just sit there like "yeah..... right...."
It seems like men just come to work, do what they are supposed to, keep their mouth shut, then come home... Which is like the complete opposite of what my wife and many other female employees do.
Obviously, there are exceptions to this.
Has anyone else noticed this?
Yes. When I was in management, my problem employees were generally female.
Not always, but most of the time. Petty stuff, generally.
I would actually presume this to be more of a character issue than a gender one. But I'd guess, or reason that certain workplaces cater and/or treat women differently than men. Which then creates the environments where certain women (not all) will whine and complain and slack off. But when such environments exists for men, they'll just get yelled at by their supervisors.
No, I haven't experienced that, but it's true that women do tend to make relationships more personal. Men, in comparison, don't tend to interact as much.
I've never figured out why men tend not to complain, and sometimes even think it's a virtue not to complain. Is it that they're too dense to notice that there's something to complain about, or are they worry about looking weak?
I have worked right next to women my whole life. The current females I work with runs about 99% of what has been described here very ACCURATE. The 1 percent that are not like these described here are rare and a pleasure to work with.
And these 99% have the absolute foulest mouths and would make a sailor blush.
I'm one of the only two women in my workplace, and we all get along great. Zero drama. My only gripe is that some of them take way too much vacation and dump all their work on me. >.>
Also keep in mind that women are generally judged much more harshly than men for the same behavior.
I'm one of the only two women in my workplace, and we all get along great. Zero drama. My only gripe is that some of them take way too much vacation and dump all their work on me. >.>
Also keep in mind that women are generally judged much more harshly than men for the same behavior.
For example?
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