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Just curious.....what do you say when she says "I don't know how I'm going to be able to afford day care and go back to work?
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Originally Posted by Sophiasmommy
What does your question have to do with murdering a baby in the womb?
Sophiasmommy. Open your eyes not all pregnant woman have an ideal life or even a good life. Not being able to care for a baby or later a child is one reason women have abortion
Sophiasmommy. Open your eyes not all pregnant woman have an ideal life or even a good life. Not being able to care for a baby or later a child is one reason women have abortion
I know it is, that doesn't make it right. People kill for all kinds of reasons.
So when a pregnant mother asks if you want to feel the baby kick.....
So when people ask the expectant parents if they have name for the baby yet.....
So when friends and family of the expectant mother throw a baby shower.....
So when the expectant parents by a baby name book.....
You really haven't thought this one through much, have you?
Women who are not going to carry their pregnancies to term won't get asked those questions, because there isn't going to be a baby. And since the majority of abortions take place in the first trimester, they won't be showing, no one will be throwing a baby shower for them and the embryo won't be doing any kicking.
For women who are carrying to term, there will be a baby at the end of the process, so those are all appropriate reponses.
If, as a female you make good choices, you have better outcomes. That is my point.
If you make bad choices, you have bad outcomes.
If women only bad attention to good men, how quickly would the bad men shape up? If they KNEW that was the only way to get a woman's attention? Would they suck it up and start behaving better? Probably.
If you are a good person with self respect in a relationship with a man who also has self respect and respects YOU, and you get pregnant, you are in a good situation with a good man.
If you date and marry a jerk, you get a jerk for a boyfriend/husband/father. We all have choices. And women truly hold the cards.
Crap happens. I get that. But if you surround yourself with good people, guess what, BETTER OUTCOMES.
You can say it's not that simple, but I disagree. NO one advises women to date *losers*, right? So why do they? Self respect.
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Originally Posted by newtovenice
One issue that I have never understood when this topic is discussed is that most do not want to discuss the reasons WHY women choose to have abortions and try to solve those reasons.
Never.
Why is that? If you don't want to stop all abortions, don't you want to stop SOME? Or do you want to encourage women to have more?
Wouldn't you rather women took more control of their lives in choosing better partners, waiting to have sex if they are unsure or if the guy is a jerk, and having the self respect to understand their own worth that they deserve a GOOD man?
I have such a hard time understanding the mentality that absolutely refuses to see this and instead clamors for more and more abortions. It makes no sense. It's like using two buckets instead of one when bailing out a boat instead of plugging the hole itself.
You want every one to live by your moral code. It doesn’t work like that. You’re mad cuz some women date jerks. Don’t here you say a word about men behaving badly. There are always going to be people who make bad choices and for various reasons. Why don’t men use birth control. They don’t why. They push it off on the women. Men need to mind their own sperm. And we won’t have as many men moaning about paying child support. Or skipping town and being dead beat dad. Your post works well for men. Pick better partners and use your own bc
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I swear , where do some of you come up with this stuff ?