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Originally Posted by Raddo
No, I don't "got it"!
Here was the main gist of my post:
Completely ignored by you. You won't address this point, which has been made by numerous males in this thread, some of whom actually WAS helped by adult contact, rather than me just wishing someone could have helped me in the same way.
To which you replied:
You are not acknowledging ANY difference whatsoever in the sexes. That is why I stated in your mind there must not be any difference.
You are a 26 yo female who thinks she knows everything, even from a male perspective. You're not even close!
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you are clearly not understanding what i am saying.
you "think" that since you were homely and lonely that having a 26 year old adult woman have sex with you at 14 years old would have improved your life to the point that you would feel confident for the rest of your life? is that what you are trying to say? i didn't address it because it was just too ridiculous to comment on. i am not going to comment on every single thing that every single person says here. i wasn't ignoring your comment, it just wasn't worth responding to. but since you keep bringing it up...i'll get it out of the way. there.
i stand by my opinion that an adult male or female having sex with a child boy or girl, is WRONG. obviously you don't agree. but it doesn't make me wrong to feel that adults are not supposed to be attracted to sexually and go on to have sex with children.
i have already addressed your comments about how girls and boys and men and women are different. of course they are different. i have not argued that they aren't. but you seem to ignore that girls also have fantasies and hormones and get horny and can be insecure and homely and all of that and that some of them may also want to have a sexual relationship with an older man to feel better about themselves. this is not a strictly boy thing. you don't think there are girls out there who like to be sexually involved with adult men?
but that does NOT change the fact that adults cannot have sex with middle school age children without legal consequences.
p.s. i'm 54 years old and have NEVER claimed to know how males feel or think. i am talking LEGALLY and morally it is wrong for adults to have sex with children. you disagree and think it is fine for a women to have sex with a boy. i will never agree that that is ok. do boys want to have sex with women? i have no doubt there are boys out there who want to and who do. but just don't forget that this is not just a "boy" thing.
just as i don't know what it is like to be a homely lonely sad boy who thinks his life would have been better if some woman had molested him, you don't know what it's like to be a normal little girl.
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