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I've been married and I dated, and I have never felt I was paying for sex. I've had way too much respect for the women I have sex with to ever, ever think of it that way.
What a sick perspective.
You may not have felt like it, but by a strict definition, you did exchange something of value in exchange for sex.
It has nothing about respect for women. It's having a fussy definition. No one is calling all your dates whores, unless you are, in which case, that's rude.
The definition of "Hooker", can be quite liberal on broad...
ie... Generally, a woman who accepts a material gift in exchange for sex.
Now, how many of you women actually expect to be properly entertained, wined and dined $$$$$, prior to consummating the date?
Never mind, it's just a rhetorical question. You can ALL put your hands back down now!
No, not talking about dating. Talking about hiring a hooker for $$$ in exchange for sex. No dinner, no flowers. Just money for sex.
I just think there has to be something wrong with guys who have to pay for sex. So far no one has written: Oh yes I pay for sex. I think most people think it is not something one is proud of, or something they are willing to tell others.
I've been married and I dated, and I have never felt I was paying for sex. I've had way too much respect for the women I have sex with to ever, ever think of it that way.
What a sick perspective.
But there are many women who feel that if you can't afford their tastes, then you can't score because you can't come up with adequate cash....
OTOH
If you have the cash, then your wish becomes their demand! They then will acquiesce to just about any request you desire, short of murder...
The word "Respect" never really enters the conversation. It's just a word behind closed doors...
I've been married and I dated, and I have never felt I was paying for sex. I've had way too much respect for the women I have sex with to ever, ever think of it that way.
What a sick perspective.
What a accurate perspective. The only time it is not accurate is when women are paying their own way. And that is something thats only recently started happening. I've been divorced for about half a year now, and im dating a lot. I would say its only about 20% that pay their own way, or take turns paying.
As a woman, if I met a guy who admitted that he pays for sex, I would not want to get to know him, would not think much of him as a person. Would not want him around my family.
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Originally Posted by Roadking2003
Sounds like a warning; don't admit it and everything will be OK.
As a guy, I don't think much of a man who pays for sex. I do NOT think much of him as a person, and like dothetwist, do not want him around my family.
That is not our morals, as atheists. Of course, we all know many non-atheists who do not have the same moral code.
No, not talking about dating. Talking about hiring a hooker for $$$ in exchange for sex. No dinner, no flowers. Just money for sex.
I just think there has to be something wrong with guys who have to pay for sex. So far no one has written: Oh yes I pay for sex. I think most people think it is not something one is proud of, or something they are willing to tell others.
I'm an ugly and hairy middle eastern look man. When I was dating I talked and humored women into my bed. If I wasn't a smooth talker, I guess I would need to pay directly. And there is no shame in this. People have needs. Lack of sex can cause mental and physical issues.
It's the standard that women and men both apply to men, that if a man can't be sexually appealing to a woman, he must be horribly defective in some way.
Worse yet are those few unfortunate souls who used to look good and either have a good relationship or at least short term flings and, through no fault of their own, lost their looks (accidents, chemo, etc...). Where do those people go? We do live in a vain society that values or devalues people based upon their apperance.
Whether legal or not, why in the world would it be "OK" to pay for sex?
Consenting seller, consenting buyer. It also cuts out the time and energy of having to sit through a movie and dinner first.
Mind you, I'm more interesting in real feelings than just just sex, but then again I don't wrry too much about what consenting adults do with one another anyway
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