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View Poll Results: Would you date a trans gendered person?
yes 12 6.06%
no 186 93.94%
Voters: 198. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 06-26-2019, 12:46 PM
 
Location: Plymouth Meeting, PA.
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I can't believe that is true that they are puzzled by it.
Would you date a trans gendered person?
state why or why not?




https://thefederalist.com/2019/06/24...J0H8QyWwzSKDZw
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Old 06-26-2019, 12:58 PM
 
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Attraction is something hard to figure out. Well, maybe not so hard. I still like Jimi Hendrix and Led Zep. I still like late 60's women (well, if it was the late 60's) without done-up hair or makeup.

I supposed we are all influenced by where and when we grow up.

I grew up fast (married young), but if I was "playing the field" as Dad and Mom used to suggest, I expect that - like many these days - I'd have tried "bi" if the opportunity and desire was there, but never had any interest in "made up" stuff like fake boobs, heavy makeup, botox or other surgical methods. So I would not.....consider this particular scene....although it is hardly going to be a question in my life at this point......
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Old 06-26-2019, 01:05 PM
 
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I can't believe that is true that they are puzzled by it.
Would you date a trans gendered person?
state why or why not?




https://thefederalist.com/2019/06/24...J0H8QyWwzSKDZw
Why do you care?
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:15 PM
 
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Just another example of how removed from reality many on the far left have become. Straight men do not want to date women that have a penis. Straight women do not want to date men that have vaginas. Why is this not obvious?

Even for those transgenders that have their penis & testicles removed and lady parts added, many still have a man's body/face/hands that will be a turnoff to most straight men. In the other direction, women who go all the way in transitioning to a male body end up with a tiny penis and no testicles and don't have the full transformation that they might wish they had.

I sympathize with the transgenders for having been dealt the cards they have, but a very limited dating audience is part of the package. There is perhaps more potential for dating success within the LGB community for them. I really do hope transgenders find life partners, but the pickings will be slim in the straight community.
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:22 PM
 
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uh...probably because hardly anyone falls into that extremely small demographic
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:28 PM
 
Location: Top of the South, NZ
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Despite debate over gender/ sex etc, most people don't really believe a man has become a woman etc.
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Austin TX
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I know a young transsexual woman who quite frankly, grates on the nerves of us women around her with her CONSTANT discussion of women's issues. She will drone on and on over the trials and tribulations of womanhood as if she’s actually gone through them ... menstruation, childbirth, you name it and she’s an “expert”.

Except ... she’s not. She’s a trans woman, and a nice one at that, but not a biological female. I understand her desire to relate as a female, but it’s just fake to take it that far. Trans people will always be trans people. I hope they can one day find peace with that.
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:38 PM
 
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Explanation for psychologists -

I am a cisgendered, heterosexual male. I am only attracted to cis-females. My whole life, never any deviation, going back to telling my mom that the prettiest girl in my kindergarten was going to be my wife before the end of the first week of school.

A man who "transitions" does not become a woman. What they become is a man who takes hormone therapy drugs, has their genitals mutilated, and wears women's clothing/cosmetics. Still a dude, and I am only attracted to biologically XX chromosome females with original parts and equipment. No disrespect towards the dudes who believe in their heads that they are now chicks, but I DON'T BELIEVE IT, and my attraction fails at that disbelief.

Pretty simple, and doesn't hate or disrespect anyone.
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:38 PM
 
Location: The Republic of Gilead
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I can't believe that is true that they are puzzled by it.
Would you date a trans gendered person?
state why or why not?




https://thefederalist.com/2019/06/24...J0H8QyWwzSKDZw
It's probably not true, especially since that link is to a far-right website.
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Old 06-26-2019, 02:41 PM
 
Location: IN>Germany>ND>OH>TX>CA>Currently NoVa and a Vacation Lake House in PA
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There are people that will call you transphobic for not being willing to date a transgender person. That is the ridiculousness of some of the far left and their agenda.
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