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Old 09-03-2019, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Newport Beach, California
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And having seen racism as part of a mixed couple, I know how disgusting people can be.
My sister married a black guy. Yes, SOME people can be pretty disgusting.

 
Old 09-03-2019, 06:56 PM
 
Location: Born + raised SF Bay; Tyler, TX now WNY
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Yeah, I'm not saying we should do away with all discrimination laws. On the contrary, I think they're needed. But if mtl1 owns a shop - I want to know who he's not going to serve so I can spend my money some other place.

And having seen racism as part of a mixed couple, I know how disgusting people can be.
Curious, what have you seen? We have been looked/stared at, but never anything overtly racist, just felt like we were a novelty.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 06:58 PM
 
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Yeah, I'm not saying we should do away with all discrimination laws. On the contrary, I think they're needed. But if mtl1 owns a shop - I want to know who he's not going to serve so I can spend my money some other place.

And having seen racism as part of a mixed couple, I know how disgusting people can be.
You would be the first person I wouldn't serve .
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:03 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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Curious, what have you seen? We have been looked/stared at, but never anything overtly racist, just felt like we were a novelty.
This was 40 years ago in Chicago - which has NO problem now with mixed couples. In fact I was surprised you're still having issues, but ymmv depending on where you live.

At any rate, my black girlfriend and I were stared at, pushed into walls, 'accidentally' bumped into aggressively while walking down the street, called all kinds of names, spit on more than once, she was accused of being a prostitute, I was accused of being her pimp. It was disgusting.

I thought we were through with this. 40 years later it's still going on? How disheartening.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:04 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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You would be the first person I wouldn't serve .
Sincerely happy to hear it.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:07 PM
 
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So, let the non-white gentile "pagan" convert to Judaism and marry Jews . Aren't there black Ethiopian Jews?
There is nothing that stops any person from converting to Judaism.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:07 PM
 
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This was 40 years ago in Chicago - which has NO problem now with mixed couples. In fact I was surprised you're still having issues, but ymmv depending on where you live.

At any rate, my black girlfriend and I were stared at, pushed into walls, 'accidentally' bumped into aggressively while walking down the street, called all kinds of names, spit on more than once, she was accused of being a prostitute, I was accused of being her pimp. It was disgusting.

I thought we were through with this. 40 years later it's still going on? How disheartening.
Be honest, was it just white people hassling you? I'm sure if you went into a black neighborhood, you would've been hassled more.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:08 PM
 
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A business owner cannot legally deny service based on race. So you're wrong.

You are trying to argue my opinion of the law is wrong because it does not adhere to the law I'm criticizing.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:08 PM
 
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Tell that to diversity. They're the ones who act the most discriminatory. About any time a real American goes to an ethnic business or enclave they're treated discriminatorily.
I did not hear about any problems with Navajo or Cherokee in Ethnic places.
 
Old 09-03-2019, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Suburb of Chicago
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Be honest, was it just white people hassling you? I'm sure if you went into a black neighborhood, you would've been hassled more.
No, it wasn't just white people, but we had fewer issues in her neighborhood than we did in mine.
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