Gay interracial relationships

[kelly01]

Originally Posted by LongHornGuy86

As you've probably guessed, I AM GAY. I'm 20, in college and recently had to accept me for me. I went through periods of denial, contemplated suicide for awhile, and abused alcohol. Then one day I just had to accept it. I'd rather accept it now, then do something I regret later and hurt everyone involed.

You see, I realized that many of the people who are most homophobic, turn out to themselves be closeted homos. Besides, why should I care if people have a problem with it?

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Do you really accept yourself as Gay or are you trying to force others to accept you! To me it sounds like you just want attention and for people to notice you with your black boyfriend and that is why you mentioned his race! The reason why people call it a lifestyle is because some folks feel that a person chooses to be Gay. I am not one that feels a person chooses to be a homosexual. I personally feel some homosexuals are created. If you don't want people to judge you, then stop assuming that just because a person may not believe in your lifestyle, they are a closeted homo. I have people in my family that are gay and I accept them. A distant cousin of mine confessed to me that her father molested all six of his children boys and girls. Guess what they all turned out Gay a few of them are Bisexual Not one is straight. This of course is not their fault and maybe their choice was taken away from them as a young child. Some children may not even remember the abuse.
Often times when they grow up their sexuality becomes confused and it is easier to for them to say that they were born Gay instead of admitting that they were molested as a child. Being born Gay takes some of the shame away from being a victim. China no longer allows Gay couples to adopt their children because officials fear that the child might become a victim of molestation and turn out Gay. I have also notice that most gay men tend to adopt boys and not girls. As I said I don't have anything personally against Gay people and I don't think they choose to be gay.