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View Poll Results: When a teacher and student have sex, do you think the boys feel victimized?
Yes, 100% of the time 7 4.49%
Usually they do 13 8.33%
Sometimes 36 23.08%
Rarely 68 43.59%
Never 32 20.51%
Voters: 156. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 11-20-2008, 08:39 AM
 
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When I was in high school, I was an advocate for student-teacher sex, so long as the teacher was hot !!!

People are so lame now - this "victim" mentality with everything. Please. I would be so proud of my son if he ever landed a hot older woman when he's a teen. It'd make you more of an alpha male your whole life, which only has positive benefits.

When I see these stories I am very resentful I wasn't lucky enough to have t his happen to me!! Sheesh. That would've been totally sweet.
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Old 07-21-2010, 04:01 PM
 
Location: Georgia, on the Florida line, right above Tallahassee
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I think it depends upon the student's age. If I see a 17-year-old boy with a 24-year-old teacher (female or male for that matter), I think to myself "It takes two to tango. Why is the teacher bearing 100% responsibility here?" However, when you get to those under 16 I DO feel as if teachers are being predatory and that these CHILDREN will be having trauma for a number of years to come. The teachers should have the book thrown at them in this case. I'm sorry for breaking rank here, but when I was 17 if I had a hot teacher fresh out of college propositioning me I most certainly would NOT be playing the role of "victim." A 17-year-old male knows full well what he's getting himself into when he has the teacher sprawled across her desk!
When I was 16, my girlfriend was 21.
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Old 07-21-2010, 04:52 PM
 
Location: Moose Jaw, in between the Moose's butt and nose.
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I just don't see why hot (or above average looking teachers) would want to sleep with students, when their picking pool is quite big, wouldn't you say?
Now teachers that look like Janet Napatolo or possible Supreme court Keagan......
I could see that.
I can't seem to get a wife for the life of me, but Letroneau (the one in Seattle in 1996) and her, at the time 12 year old lover, are still together......
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Old 07-21-2010, 04:55 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh, PA
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...I bet the boy feels like a champ...
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Old 07-21-2010, 04:56 PM
 
Location: North Las Vegas
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It does not matter what sex the teacher is, or what sex the student is, teacher student sex is a violation of a trust and as such of course the student is victimized by the experience.

Never should a child be put into a position where they have to decide if it is okay to have sex with a teacher, that decision is supposed to be made by the teacher and it should be an automatic NO.
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Old 07-21-2010, 05:33 PM
 
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A lot of men think they wish they had that chance, but many who actually did now don't think it was so hot. Many say it has given them trouble in future relationships. And it is definitely a conflict when a teacher has sex with a student.
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Old 07-21-2010, 05:37 PM
 
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it doesn't matter if the "victim" feels victimized or not. if one person is an adult and the other underage it is illegal. should not matter boy or girl but some seem to think if it is a young boy they will enjoy and learn from the experience. if it is a young girl with an older man then it is child abuse. seems a strange distinction.
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Old 07-21-2010, 05:38 PM
 
Location: 15 months till retirement and I can leave the hell hole of New Yakistan
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I concur .. some of these woman were quit hot LOL.
how do you 'quit' hot...is that a progressive thing???


maybe your 5th grade teacher should have tught you it is quitE
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Old 07-21-2010, 05:44 PM
 
Location: Blankity-blank!
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I was 17. My English teacher (about 28, and nice looking) flashed me several times but I was too naive to react. I kick myself now for not having enjoyed the pleasures.
I encourage boys to go for it!
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Old 07-21-2010, 06:50 PM
 
Location: San Antonio
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It does not matter what sex the teacher is, or what sex the student is, teacher student sex is a violation of a trust and as such of course the student is victimized by the experience.

Never should a child be put into a position where they have to decide if it is okay to have sex with a teacher, that decision is supposed to be made by the teacher and it should be an automatic NO.
Exactly. Statutory rape is statutory rape. The law is the law. Do all of the girls feel victimized? No. It doesn't matter, though because those MALE teachers commited a crime as well.
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