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So what. Back off. I refuse to say nice things about anybody that doesn't deserve it.
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Originally Posted by karfar
My point Artsy is that saying even a backhanded comment in passing can come back & bite not only you in the ass but others too. So what if she was rude? The one thing I've learned about working in an office environment is to never say anything negative about others, no matter how much it hurts.
People treat me like garbage for no logical reasons. If I want to talk trash about a rude and conniving idiot , then I will.
Fine, I'm just saying why would you want to talk untrue trash? How would you like it if it were reversed? Nothing wrong w/hating your boss, I think most people do. It's just a matter of saying unkind, untrue things that can get around & cause a lot of trouble. Like I said, I speak from experience, it's not fun.
CAN you give me any example(s)???
That would help me understand your point better.
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Originally Posted by karfar
Fine, I'm just saying why would you want to talk untrue trash? How would you like it if it were reversed? Nothing wrong w/hating your boss, I think most people do. It's just a matter of saying unkind, untrue things that can get around & cause a lot of trouble. Like I said, I speak from experience, it's not fun.
CAN you give me any example(s)???
That would help me understand your point better.
If what you mean is give you an example of my own problems w/rumors, here it is....I was an assistant to a guy in a department. Very nice guy, we got along well, apparently I was the only assistant who actually made him laugh. Anyway, out of the blue, why? Because we got along???, one of my close co-worker friends told me that there was a rumor going around that I had gone out w/my boss &...you know....That was completely untrue, I had never gone out w/him, never seen him outside of the office. But because, what some jealous people? were pissed that I got along w/him, they decided to start the rumor. I was mortified! Thankfully, it died out very quickly, but I still think about how ****ed up that was to this day, that was like 2 years ago.
If what you mean is give you an example of my own problems w/rumors, here it is....I was an assistant to a guy in a department. Very nice guy, we got along well, apparently I was the only assistant who actually made him laugh. Anyway, out of the blue, why? Because we got along???, one of my close co-worker friends told me that there was a rumor going around that I had gone out w/my boss &...you know....That was completely untrue, I had never gone out w/him, never seen him outside of the office. But because, what some jealous people? were pissed that I got along w/him, they decided to start the rumor. I was mortified! Thankfully, it died out very quickly, but I still think about how ****ed up that was to this day, that was like 2 years ago.
Last edited by artsyguy; 11-24-2008 at 10:06 PM..
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