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Originally Posted by TriMT7
I'm trying to figure you out.
In one post you denigrated white male/Asian women relationships as a "fetish" relationship, while trying to evoke sympathy for the fact that black men are pushed to non-black women by black women.... which is a cop out.
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A lot (but not all) of Asian Female/White Male relationships I've seen have been based out of some sort of social gain, whether it's money or social acceptance on the female's part, or a more submissive female on the male's part. As for black women, I know there are some of them who do respect decent, hard-working, modest black men (and I mean from the get-go, not after being sexed out by the thugs and gangstas). However, where I am, they're significantly outnumbered by the stereotypical thug-lovers. I know that isn't the best reason, but try to understand that it is a pain in the a** when you have to deal with seeing fellow women going to ghetto trash in masses year after year. This is especially a kick in the nuts when multiple girls who you have been close to lose their virginity to these scum.
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Originally Posted by TriMT7
If you prefer one type over the other, just say so. Don't try to assuage your own guilt or whatever by blaming it on black women. Own it.
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Fine. I prefer women outside of my race. It isn't that I completely hate black women altogether, but it's just something about dating outside my race that makes me feel less chained to an obligation for "the community" and more space to be myself.
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