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Old 08-12-2009, 02:50 PM
 
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Yep, you said it.

I hope you don't take this as racist or bigoted but your opinion about me or my behaviour is insignificant to me.

Don't be offended.
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Old 08-12-2009, 03:40 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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I hope you don't take this as racist or bigoted but your opinion about me or my behaviour is insignificant to me.

Don't be offended.
I'm in no way offended.

I already realize my opinion is insignificant to you and anyone else who sees thru you. Truth hurts , huh?
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Old 08-12-2009, 03:50 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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When you've got to be put in your place by your own race, thats sad.
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Old 08-12-2009, 04:16 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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You have NO idea what you are talking about.
No, YOU have no idea what I'm talking about.
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Old 08-12-2009, 04:24 PM
 
Location: The D-M-V area
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You have NO idea what the circumstances to my experiences with this situation are
You know, you're absolutely right.

And I'm wondering what elicited the name calling.

Care to share with us what the situation was?
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Old 08-12-2009, 04:31 PM
 
Location: 39 20' 59"N / 75 30' 53"W
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65 posts later, OP hasn't shared, Nope, keep it secret
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:24 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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"Yankee" was originally a fairly bad word in the King's country back in the American Revolution days. look it up....funny stuff.
I have heard the word “yankee” used as a pejorative in the south, meant to be every bit as offensive as the “n” word.


The reason that the word “cracker” is not taken as negatively by whites as the “n” word by many blacks is BC of the balance of power. Just as calling a black adult male “boy” is seen as more offensive than calling a white adult man “boy”. The terms are meant to offend and put one in one’s place. When someone feels that their place is in the majority, those words don’t have the same effect.

It’s been my experience that those whites most offended by being called "cracker" tend to be in the lower socioeconomic group. This is a generalization and there are exceptions, of course. But black friends of mine who are middle or upper middle income, while they find the “n” word offensive, consider the source and don’t get bent out of shape about it. Conversely, I have worked with whites that have considered being called “cracker” to be fighting words.

Oh, and I agree with the others here- if the OP has been called "cracker" fifty times lately, he must be a real cracker
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:39 PM
 
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When you've got to be put in your place by your own race, thats sad.
Hey bud, just want to let you know we're all here to help each other, not bust each other.
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:41 PM
 
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I have heard the word “yankee” used as a pejorative in the south, meant to be every bit as offensive as the “n” word.


The reason that the word “cracker” is not taken as negatively by whites as the “n” word by many blacks is BC of the balance of power. Just as calling a black adult male “boy” is seen as more offensive than calling a white adult man “boy”. The terms are meant to offend and put one in one’s place. When someone feels that their place is in the majority, those words don’t have the same effect.

It’s been my experience that those whites most offended by being called "cracker" tend to be in the lower socioeconomic group. This is a generalization and there are exceptions, of course. But black friends of mine who are middle or upper middle income, while they find the “n” word offensive, consider the source and don’t get bent out of shape about it. Conversely, I have worked with whites that have considered being called “cracker” to be fighting words.

Oh, and I agree with the others here- if the OP has been called "cracker" fifty times lately, he must be a real cracker
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Hey bud, just want to let you know we're all here to help each other, not bust each other.
Ditto on my last response.
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Old 08-12-2009, 06:43 PM
 
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In every place I've lived the word cracker is a racially derogatory term and I'm surprised that C-D doesn't censor it as they do others. On second thought; no I'm not surprised.
Being relatively new to CD, I can only assume what you mean. And YES, without doubt the term cracker is derogatory and repugnant.
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