My wife and I are looking at moving to New England in the near future and would like someplace out away from all the subdivisions yet within 45 minutes or so of shopping, entertainment, etc. How far outside of Portland do I have to go to be in a rural town with more affordable land, etc.? By rural I don't necessarily mean isolated, but I don't want to have to see the neighbors every time I go to the mailbox.
My wife's family is from Gloucester, Mass but we want to be further North away from the traffic, congestion and high housing costs of MA. I really like what I've read about the Portland area so far. We'd like to be within a 3-hour drive of the Boston-Gloucester area.