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Originally Posted by maja
Thanks, Gen. How would you say the feel of the schools are in terms of being more traditional or progressive/liberal? For example, do they have a dress code for staff and students that is enforced? What types of sex ed. classes/info. is provided and at what grades? Drugs? Bullying? Cliques? Dances at the elementary schools? How about orchestra? Art? Phys.Ed.? Any and all info. is greatly appreciated. (We have a choice about where to move and don't want to go from the frying pan into the fire!!!) Thanks so much...and good luck with your son - I hear a similar scenario from so many friends...hopefully, its a stage... 
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I would say they are more on the progressive/liberal side (see middle school birth control boruhaha). I don't know about a staff dress code specifically but I never seen any staff dressed inappropriately. The kids have dress codes. No belly shirts, no offensive t-shirts etc with a general proviso of no provocative clothing.
Sex ed seems to be pretty generic. It seems much the same as other places they've been in school. Nothing extreme or earlier than I would expect.
They had some rules about water bottles in the middle school as they had some kind of alcohol issue. There are drugs, I suspect, but it doesn't seem like a huge problem. Certainly seems to be less than some of the private HS's my friends attended when I was younger.
We haven't run in to any bullying. I think in the schools employing expeditionary learning this ends up less of a problem because of the different dynamic between teachers and students and the need for kids to work together more.
Cliques. My kids haven't complained about this at all.
No elementary dances. My daughter attended some middle school dances. Ticket purchase was required beforehand. When we were late bringing her to the Halloween dance due to wrapping her in strips of sheet we got a call from the principal making sure we knew she was not there yet. That was very comforting.
My daughter was in chorus and they did a lot with the kids. I don't know anything about orchestra or band. I'm not sure what they do.
Art seems to be a very integral part of academics in the schools. I really like that they emphasize art.
In middle school, gym seems the same as other schools. No uniforms. The HS my son goes to doesn't have a traditional gym/sports program. Kids there can choose one of the other HS's to participate in sports.
Look in to the Summer Champs program that Portland kids can participate in. It is for 3-6th grade.
My kids ended up in Lyman Moore Middle. Word around here is that King is the best Middle school here.
Moving from the country to a small city has been an adjustment in many ways. If you are in a more rural area you end up with more control over who your children associate with and how often they are out of your sight. Managing kid relationships is more rigorous for me now most especially for my almost teen daughter. They can more easily end up in the wrong crowd but at the same time as I become more involved in the local community I get more feedback from other parents about my child than i would have in the country. She has more of a chance to get in trouble here but I have a lot more people looking out for her so it evens out.