This thread is almost exactly the question I've been trying to have answered :0 I'm from Eugene, living in LA, planning to move the family up to Portland. My wife wants city convenience and other toddler-toting parents to meet. I want nature to be close by and to have room to breathe.
I also work from home, so I feel I should take advantage of the ability to live where commuting is not convenient but nice living is cheaper. Sherwood seems like a pretty enough area; this is how I found this posting. I've heard that SW Portland is the way to go, as have I heard that N Portland is good. Beaverton and Hillsboro seem to have cheaper but nice places.
The idea of a cookie cutter suburb feels very Sell-out to me, but I'm almost not caring at this point --just as long as I have a big, pretty yard for the kid and don't have to pay more than 12 or 13 hundred a month. 10 would be nicer. I hope that people can tell me that Portland's events and shopping and toddler piano class-type stuff is readily available to anyone in the metro area. But oh, sorry, that'd be hijacking this thread

I really just want to hear some more about the neighborhoods, too!
Any of these places too expensive to consider? Are they all relatively nice to live in? Slummy? Boring? (Linda's comments were very helpful to me; thanks). Looking forward to more replies.